Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Happy Hump Day!

So this morning I'm listening to the radio as I pull on my thermal top (it's colder than a Witch's tit outside!), and the "rumor of the day" was about Amber Rose calling Kim Kardashian a "home wrecker." It went something like this:

They were both cheating! They were both cheating on me and Reggie with each other. She was sending pictures, and I was like, ‘Kim, just stop. Don’t be that person.' I thought at least she’d be woman enough to respond to me. She never responded.

It’s very important that us women stick together and we don’t f**k each other over like that.

Read more: Amber Rose Blasts Kim K As A Homewrecker: ‘They Were Cheating On Me & Reggie With Each Other’ Necole

I normally don't give a rat's ass about anything Amber Rose has to say - although she rocks a baldy better than anyone I know - but her comment got me thinking...and thus the question of the day.

Should other women (and men) respect someone else's relationship?

I've heard everything from, "Well, if she was doing her job, then he wouldn't be coming to me." Or, "He must not be hittin' it right...which is why I break her off."

But is that disrespectful, or should the blame soley be placed on the one who is in the actual relationship? Are men and women obligated to look out for each other and not screw over (literally) someone else by infiltrating their relationship - or are all bets off if everyone involved is a consenting adult - and out to get theirs?

What say you? Have you ever been the "other" person? Have you ever held a third party responsible for the breakup of your relationship?

Let's go!



Annamaria said...


A-buzzzz said...

Now as a married woman I have two thoughts... IF the woman knew about me I would be upset. BUT at the same time MY HUSBAND took a vow to me. NOT some chick. I HATE to see a woman fight another woman over a man & then see Woman A walking around with the dude like he didn't do anything... If you aren't going to be mad at your significant other who cheated don't be mad at the side piece.

Stef said...


Stef said...

I agree, the other woman (or man) is not responsible for your relationship, the person IN it is.

That being said, it depends also on who that other woman is. If it's a friend or a relative, then yes, they catch a beatdown too! Even more so than the dude. I almost EXPECT a man to cheat, but if the woman he's cheating with is someone close to me, then she's more wrong than he my opinion.

Yolanda said...

I'm too scared of karma to be anyone's side piece. No sir. No ma'am. No thanks. I don't dip in other people's pots or pursue men my friends have shagged or had relationships with. If I know you're in a relationship, I'm catching the next bus. Someone better will come.

A to the BUZZZZ said...

@Stef... I agree but that is why I am GLAD I have mostly male relatives... So if Powerz wants to cheat with one of my brothers... then we would have a bunch of different problems.. LMFAO

Courtney said...

I'm cracking up at all of Annamaria's names :) "A to the Buzz" LOL!!

I do sort of thing we have an obligation to respect each other's relationships to a degree. If I know a man is involved, I'm not going there. I've been attracted to coworkers and have had opportunities, but it's not worth it. It never ends well if you ask me. And why hurt someone else who is innocent in it all?

Yes, karma is a bitch!

The Cable Guy said...

I don't think anyone else can wreck your home, it's either good or a wreck already. If you're happy, you ain't goin' no where.

Anonymous said...

I'm with Yolanda on the karma. I've done it before and I haven't had a successful relationship since. I forgave myself, but it's hard trusting people.

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