I don't give hand jobs to RANDOM people. Trust me, if I'm giving a hand job, he's someone I know - WELL. But giving hand jobs for a living with all the nasty diseases there are out there, trust me, gloves are in order. That's just gross.
Hmmm....this is hard for me. I guess it's cheating, but I've damn near had orgasms from massages that DON'T include a happy ending. It's relaxing, and hand jobs aren't sex to me. I might be in the minority on this one, but I can see how most would think this is cheating.
I guess if the man goes there specifically to get a happy ending then that's problematic.
I'm more curious to find out where women go to get happy endings!
My fiance and I had this convo a few weeks ago as he works in an area where they do a lot of massages are done and happy endings are the norm. i don't see it as cheating but he sure does.It just doesn't bother me like that.I would would more concerned if he got a blow job but not a hand job.
It's a cheating act. I'd like to know where the hell the hell this place Stephanie is talking about. The norm? THE NORM? I thought Happy Endings became the exception everywhere.
Not saying I'd get one...but if that masseuse is fine. I can't say I'd just say no...
Like Domina*Tricks said, I know women who get off on the massage itself
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Yes it's cheating:)!
Who the hell is "anonymous"???
and yes, it's cheating. Any form of contact that results in an orgasm that I didn't give him is cheating.
Yes. So it better make him real happy cuz I guarantee my attorney is going to be giving me a happy ending when she gets thru with him.
LMAO!!! Abuzz ain't havin' it!
I ain't having it either, that's just nasty for a massage therapist to even do. I hope she uses gloves!
I'm trying to imagine what a happy ending would be for a woman. If it's a finger rub, I can forgive that, but if it's oral, then yes, it's cheating.
@Courtney, don't sit up here and act like you ain't never gave a hand job before, LOL!
@Brooke... HELL TO THE NO
@Cable Guy,
I don't give hand jobs to RANDOM people. Trust me, if I'm giving a hand job, he's someone I know - WELL. But giving hand jobs for a living with all the nasty diseases there are out there, trust me, gloves are in order. That's just gross.
And yes, to answer the question, that's cheating.
Hmmm....this is hard for me. I guess it's cheating, but I've damn near had orgasms from massages that DON'T include a happy ending. It's relaxing, and hand jobs aren't sex to me. I might be in the minority on this one, but I can see how most would think this is cheating.
I guess if the man goes there specifically to get a happy ending then that's problematic.
I'm more curious to find out where women go to get happy endings!
My fiance and I had this convo a few weeks ago as he works in an area where they do a lot of massages are done and happy endings are the norm. i don't see it as cheating but he sure does.It just doesn't bother me like that.I would would more concerned if he got a blow job but not a hand job.
It's a cheating act. I'd like to know where the hell the hell this place Stephanie is talking about. The norm? THE NORM? I thought Happy Endings became the exception everywhere.
Not saying I'd get one...but if that masseuse is fine. I can't say I'd just say no...
Like Domina*Tricks said, I know women who get off on the massage itself
*cracks knuckles*
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