Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Happy Tuesday!
So...today's question of the day has to do with a term I heard on the radio this morning. The morning talent on Hot 97 did an interview with T.I., and one thing that struck me as interesting was T.I. saying he loves a "respectable freak." He took it one step further and said:
"Nobody knows where the nose goes when the do's are closed."
I cracked up!
Now, some would argue that the words "respectable" and "freak" don't go together and shouldn't be used in the same sentence. But some would say that one could be a complete lady (or gentleman) in public while keeping it down and dirty behind closed doors.
So my question to you is: when do you show the freaky side of yourself without being perceived as a ho...or "non-respectable?" Do you bring out the freak right away, or do you keep it under wraps until your "respectable" side has already been established? Are the lines between "slutty" and "freaky" blurry..or are those descriptions totally different?
What say you?
Go!
-b
28 comments:
FIRST BITCHES!
Dammit Annamaria !!!!!!
I have to use ur own taser on u. lolol
HA HA HA HA HA.... LMAO
Like Luda said.. They wanna lady in the streets but a freak in da bed... LMAO
I think respectable & freak go very well together. You want to be the person that helps your mate out. You want to be the partner that they can take to a business dinner. OR the one that they can take to meet momma...
BUT you should also want to be the person that can make their privates tingle at 3:30pm when they are sitting at work & you are no where around them but they just thinking about what happened last night OR what's going to happen that night.
In MY opinion the difference between slutty & freaky are this.. You can be freaky with your MATE OR PARTNER... Slutty is when you are doing ALL those things with whoever you meet.
And no you don't go from 0-freak right away.. It should continue to slip out in spurts as time progresses....
It's absolutely possible to be a respectable freak... the key is how you behave outside of the bedroom. That other 99% of your life is what counts.
I've found most men seem to like the "surprise" actually.
Ok, I'm not talking about sex any more. *depressing*
:-)
LOL!! Yolanda, you're crazy :)
And you're right - how you conduct yourself outside of the bedroom is what will determine if you're a ho or a "respectable" freak :)
@Annamaria - "privates tingle"? :)
I know that feeling tho...when the thought of someone's touch pops into your head and a chill shoots down your spine...OH YEAH!!! LOL!
EXACTLY...LOL
I think that is a good question. I never quite know when to bring the freak out. I think men like the surprise, but I think it depends on how freaky you get. Normally I just follow his lead, but I find that most men are a bit BEHIND me in the freak dept. Like Chris Rock said, sometimes I have to "ration out the p*ssy" - give it to him in doses so he doesn't think I do certain things all the time. But men tend to give you all their tricks at once. How come we don't think of THEM as freaks OR ho's? Not fair!!!
AnnaMaria broke it down so that it need be broken down no further! She hit the nail on the head.
***thinks about what he calls "the spin cycle", shudders and smiles***
Every man and woman are different. Usually by the time I decide to get intimate with a person, I've already determined if they're a respectable person or not - regardless of what goes down behind closed doors. So to me, if you bring out all your freak the first time we sleep together, I'm not going to look at you any differently than if you ration it out as time goes on. If I think you're a ho, then I will have determined that without having to sleep with you...and no matter how much you "hold on to it", nothing will change that perception. I've slept with women on the first date who I've COMPLETELY respected, and there are women who I didn't have sex with for months who I eventually never respected It's dependent on the person and the circumstances, and if you feel comfortable having sex on the first date and letting your freak loose, how you carry yourself out in public is what I look at. There are some men who judge women based on sex, but I'm not one of them.
well, I wish more men were like you Jay!
@ Jay if every man were like you there would be a lot less arguing amongst couples.
I agree you can be a respectable freak.if you respect yourself, does it really matter how many partners you have. As I've said in the past these are words/ terminology that is used to shame woman into submission.Words like Ho, Slut, freak ect are used to devalue a woman's sense of sexuality and sexual power.
Everyone has a definition of what a Ho is. I think if you are single and use protection and let your sexual partners know what the deal is a woman can sleep with as many men as she wants and not be Ho.
Y'all are killing it with this question. I agree all over the place. There's no need in rationing out the freak if you're a respectable person and you know the person respects you. I've seen the most respectful, polished, sometimes prudish acting women in public turn around when the "do' closed" and say and do some wonderfully freaky stuff.
I respected them before and even more after. I mean, how do you hide that toy in that small ass clutch, young lady?? Lmao
Hoes are obvious. They're see through and evident. They're all over the place doing everything everywher.
not to say you have to be silent or hiding to be a respectable freak. You just have to be respectable. Pay your bills, love the world around you, speak with intelligence, have some intelligence, respect your temple...
then let me respect it...over and over again. Lol
Fury with his nasty ass is back :)
Are you blogging for Brooke this TMI Tuesday? (next Tuesday?)
WHY DOES STEF KNOW EXACTLY HOW MANY MINUTES THERE ARE TIL TMI TUESDAY/FURY DAY??? lmao
You better watch out for the headboard girl!!!!!!!!!!!!
YOU GOT MAD JOKES A-Buzzz!
I TOLD you, I don't DO doggystyle anymore so my head can't get stuck anymore! LOL!
Fury's TMI Tuesday blogs are always so intriguing! And I can indulge without getting the warning you get when you go to HIS page. (I read his page when I'm at home) :)
WHAT I SAID THAT WITH LOVE!!!!!! Just like I am buying you a solid headboard so you don't have to be scared anymore..LMAO
I'm afraid of banging my head into stuff :) LOL!
"Respectable Freaks" don't get their heads stuck in headboards! LMAO!!
Although we cool Captain Cable:
(handing my taser over to Stef)
(taking taser from A-Buzz)
Wasn't nobody talking to YOU Cable Guy...mind ya bidness!
And the MOST RESPECTABLE freaks get their heads stuck and keep it moving! LOL!
LMFAO @ AnnaMaria and Stef!!!
Yes Stef I'll be back. Brooke just gave me the ok for the return and my deadline date. She's one tough cookie, boy I tel ya. Such a respectable....friend. Lmao
hmmmm....Brooke how high does your freak flag fly?
from the looks of it Will Smith has a respectable freak himself...
I'm actually looking forward to Fury's TMI Tuesday myself :)
@Fury,
You have to ask? ;-)
@Brooke - No I don't have to ask. You can just show me...boy are you lucky I'm bot going to DR....OR maybe I should say unlucky! Lol
Yeah, maybe UNlucky :-)
gI have to agree with Stef. Only the realest of freaks get their heads stuck in the headboard...but really you can't give up doggystyle because of that experience. You'll lose respect as a freak...not as a person.
I've been traumatized Fury!!!!
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