Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Happy TMI Tuesday!

I know we usually do TMI Tuesday on the first Tuesday of every month, but Fury got caught napping, and Domina*Tricks offered to guest blog for me today. This should definitely be interesting...so let's go!

30, Horny...and Bisexual?...by Domina*Tricks

Ever since I hit my sexual peak around 30, I have been on a continuous hormonal roller coaster ride full of sexual peaks and valleys. The onset of my bisexuality began on one of those highs.


I didn't fret my 30th birthday like most women do. I was educated, well traveled and successful by my own standards. I was in the best shape of my life and my energy was positive - I was on a natural high.

I felt good about myself. I also noticed that I also wanted more sex, and craved the experience of others. But not just men...OTHERS...as in everyone...male or female. I had never really felt a need to experience a woman until this time in my life. But I was open to it...and excited about it.

As of late, I have revisited an upswing in my sex drive. I’m constantly aroused and think about sex nonstop. This could be in part because of a hormonal shift, or perhaps it could be that tiny barbell piercing on my hood, just above the clitoris. The bead on the end of this barbell quite frequently rubs my clit and results in the feeling that I’m sure rivals an 18 year-old boy in heat. I don't know how you men deal with it!!

I like sex, this has not changed...but my need for sex has changed. Some days are worse than others - not meaning that sexual arousal is ever a bad thing - but some days I want sex...others, an orgy, and there are those times I prefer sleep (probably from all of my extra curricular activities). Then I'll go on a spree where I want nothing but men...then six months later, I'll commit to a woman who I've fallen madly in love with.

Who is responsible for this malicious trick? Am I being punked? Men hit their peek in their late teens to early 20s, when most are free from the responsibility of adulthood. But here I am; 30-something, a kickass career, no children, and ALWAYS horny.

My bisexual lifestyle does help with this affliction, but not every woman is genetically disposed to be in my position or have the desire to live like I do. But being bisexual doesn't mean I' m a whore, or promiscuous. Bisexuality is only a small part of my life and doesn’t mean that I don't go out with friends, to movies, plays, or spend time with my very accepting family. I just happen to be horny while I'm living my life, and I wonder if it'll ever pass. I have to wonder how other women fair during this crazy time of life. Do these feelings bring about the need to seek gratification in other ways or from other people? Do you have sex more with your husbands? Do you cheat if he can't satisfy you? Do you buy more toys? What do you do?

Or is it just me? I can't be the only raging sexual animal in her 30's roaming around NYC. Please, someone, anyone, tell me...are you just as horny as I am??

-Domina*Tricks

28 comments:

Anthony Otero said...

First BITCHES!

Anthony Otero said...

I do not think it is you. I am pretty sure women reach their sexual peak between 35 − 45. I am sure you are getting close that…

I will also say that I think sex just gets better the older you get..

Stef said...

About time we got a TMI Tuesday!

Dominatricks is a mess, but she's not the only one! While I'm not quite yet 30, I feel like I'm horny all the time too...especially in the summer! All you have to do is breathe on me and I'm ready to go!

Ms. Penn said...

I've found that I'm WAY more sexual now that I'm in my 30's. It's not just you Dominatricks. While I'm not bisexual, I do find that my boyfriend is not always up for it like I am - pun intended. I think I exhaust him sometimes, so I have to find other ways to satisfy myself. Toys have helped, but he gets upset when I use them when he's home because he feels like that's my way of letting him know he's not enough for me. That was never my intention, so now I just use them when he's asleep or not home, which doesn't always match my mood.

Sex with him is great, and I love him and have no desire to cheat, but sometimes I just need a little more to take the edge off. Nothing wrong with it if you ask me.

The Cable Guy said...

That photo is funny, she's grabbin her ish' like "come get it!"

I don't know if this was a question for women or not, but I think about sex all the time - don't know too many dudes who don't. If I have a willing partner and enough time, you gets the business!

Courtney said...

I like when Dominatricks writes TMI Tuesday :) Forget Fury!!! LOL!

john said...

Wow what a fantastic "TMI" get busy girl. I love the honesty, I believe EVERYONE has this inner freak waiting to be released and how I wish we could all say what we feel and really want sexually without someone turning up thier nose or saying to you "that's sick" or "crazy". With that being said,from a man's perspective at 49 I'm now into wanting waaayyy more exploration than I was at 30. At 30 it was fuck as hard and as long as I could especially since I knew I was about that "D" work. At 49 I wouldn't mind the introduction of some new twist and flavors to my arsenal of sexual positions and taste. My woman is willing and a silent super freak so for a 49 year old physically fit male with a 39 year old woman that loves to "get it poppin" whenever however I guess the possibilties are whoa!! I'm on your team Dominatricks.."pick me pick me" ; )

Stef said...

Um...is that Brooke's man asking to be picked to be with Domina*Tricks? Not a good look!

The Cable Guy said...

Everyone is quiet today :) No one likes to comment on sexual topics :)

Domina*Tricks said...

I'm sure he simply meant that he knows where I'm coming from. As sexy as Brooke is, I'm sure she's handling her business at home!

The Cable Guy said...

@Stef,

You sound real crazy right now. Pick me means you wanna be on her team, not get with her. Boo, bye.

Stef said...

@Cable Guy,

You sound like a girl saying things like "boo, bye"!

And you just mad because Brooke never gave you the time of day.

john said...

@Steph..Yes this is Brooke's man...and we are always a good look.if you read I said "I'm on your team pick me pick me" which doesn't mean let me fuck you it means I'm down with team freak..pick me pick me. Also where's your post..oh I see sideline type jawn. @ Ms. Penn get it girl!!@ Courtney where my dogs at?

The Cable Guy said...

@Stef,

Boo...BYE!

John wrote "jawn"...that's SOOO PHILLY!!! LOL!

Brooke said...

exactly...and I have to listen to that Philly slang all day and night!

Stef said...

@John,

Sorry, I must've read it wrong, but you have to admit, it sounded weird at first. My bad homie!!

@Cable Guy,

Go sit down somewhere.

I'm sure Brooke DOES handle her business at home!

Courtney said...

Brooke's man is ready to explore, awww shucks!!

Nothing wrong with that. And where is Annamaria, Powerz, Craig, Fury, Yolanda and Serena at? They're not trying to touch this topic huh? LOL!

The Fury said...

What y'all thought y'all wasn't gonna see me????

Brooke is right I was caught sleeping, but she didn't bother to wake me either.

ALL GOOD! I appreciate this Domin*Tricks post more than she knows!! *wink*

I think I've FINALLY slowed down a little. Like John Said, I'm down with the exploration. I don't have to dick down and serve major pound cake as much. I've always been a quality guy anyway, but now I'm even MORE about the mind fuck.

And @Domina*Tricks - you made me drool when you talked about your hood piercing. yowza!

How do I keep from goign crazy when I get horny and there's no one around to soothe the itch? It's me time and porn...or I wait and give the next lady some unabashed appreciation

The Fury said...

I had a problem posting earlier. But you know I pop the hell up with the quickness like a True Blood Vampire!

Whassup Courtney..how ya doin'? *wink*

Domina*Tricks said...

I'm slightly jealous of John, Brooke's ass is sexy as hell!

And he's ready to take it to the next level too, I love it!

Thank you all for reading my post and not judging. Always a good crowd here :)

Courtney said...

Hey Fury!

Stef said...

Brooke, get your ass ready!

Jaz said...

I'm mad he said Brooke was a silent super freak and ready to get it poppin'! LOL! Go girl!

Ms. Penn said...

yes, "jawn" is so Philly! I guess that's where John is from, and isn't Brooke from there too? She got her boo with her in the NYC?!

If Brooke is 39 (hard to believe with that baby face), then she should be right in the thick of her sexual peak. If you have a man willing to explore, then get it as much as possible!

Stef said...

@Jaz,

uh..haven't you read Red Lips and her other stories. Her freak is WELL KNOWN!!! LOL!

Jaz said...

Yeah, but she's tasteful...not Freaky. But hey, we all got some freak in us somewhere, just need the right person to bring it out!

The Fury said...

@Courtney - Hey there...

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