Brookey's Cafe Blog

Happy Tuesday!

It's not TMI Tuesday, but I'm going to share something with you all - I've had sex in a public place before....shhhhh! :-)

Okay, so not that big of a deal right? Probably because this is one of the number one sexual fantasies running through men and women's minds....right up there with threesomes and whatnot. At least that's what I've heard anyway ;-)

For some reason I've been rediscovering Usher's Here I Stand cd. I've had it for a while but never really gave it a good listen other than the singles played on the radio. I particularly like the remix to Love in This Club featuring Beyonce and Lil Wayne. I couldn't find a video for the remix, so I'll give y'all this one instead:

I've never so much as kissed someone on the dance floor in a club - although I'd love to. Something about feeling the person you're dancing with, along with feeling the music, is just so damn sexy to me. However, never done it. So I can't even fathom having sex in a club. I barely want to go pee in one. Ewww! But I have been in public places where the mood just hit me, and well...let's just say I was very careful not to get caught. I was with my man at the time, so no worries. Strangers or casual acquaintances get no such love from me, and I have to feel comfortable and safe with the person I'm with in order to go there...and I have, a few times ;-)

I have friends who've told me that they've had sex on rooftops of buildings, empty subway cars (I find that A LOT of New Yorkers have), backseats of cabs, bars, restaurant restrooms (his OR hers), offices, Central Park - you name it. I think New Yorkers are the biggest exhibitionists on the planet! Hell, I can barely stand that we all live on top of each other and that my neighbors can hear me through the walls, that is...if I have sex...IF...not that they have heard me...recently...huh?

Ahem...anyway ;-)

I find it funny that most people I know who are germophobes will not eat, pee or sit in/on any of those places I listed above - but gettin' busy is something totally different. They'll get it in ANYWHERE if the mood strikes...no big deal. It's all about the excitement, which makes me wonder - is the sex really good when you're leaning up against a wall, one leg balanced over his shoulder while you have one hand holding onto the....wait...huh? ;-)

After it's over and you look back at the experience, was the sex really good, or did it just seem that way because of the exciting possibility of getting caught? Or does that even matter? Do we do it because our primal needs kick in and take over, or do we do it simply as rite of passage (think "Mile High Club")?

Couple more questions, since we're sharing...sort of....

1. Have you ever had sex in a public place?
2. If so, where?
3. Give us your top 3 favorite public places for gettin' busy - the club not included ;-)

Is it hot in here, or is it just me? ;-)

-b