Friday, April 23, 2010

Brookey's TGIF Sexy Survey

TGIF!!

Sexy Survey!

1. Would you want to, or have you, lived with a prospective mate before getting married? If so, for about how long?

2. If every day next year you had an extra hour of leisure, would you rather spend all of it with your partner or by yourself? It must be one or the other.

3. What type of body do you respond to the strongest? Who comes to mind as the perfect example of that body type?

4. You are beginning an exciting romance and learn that your partner, who badly wants children, would almost certainly leave you if he or she discovered that you were unable to have kids. If you were almost sure that you could never have a child, would you try to hide the fact for a while or reveal it right away? Is it a deal breaker for YOU if your new partner couldn't have children?

5. If you could either double or halve your desire for sex, which would you do? How do you think your choice would affect your relationship (if you're in one)?

Go!

-b

30 comments:

Stef said...

FIRST BITCHES!!

Stef said...

Damn, where ya'll at!?

Anyway!

1. I'd want to live with a guy before I married him. I never have, but I think that's the only way to know if it'll work.

2. I'd want to spend it alone. I probably would see him during some of the other 23 hours in the day.

3. I respond to tall, dark men with great smiles. I guess my ideal would be Chris Webber. Yum!

4. No kids is a dealbreaker for me. And if I couldn't have kids, I'd tell upfront so I don't waste anyone's time.

5. I'd double it. Not really in a real relationship right now, but I'd hope he'd be happy with that choice :) I've been feeling "blah" lately, probably cuz I ain't getting none, so maybe that's why I'd double it....which I guess would make my problem worse :( sigh.

Jay said...

I'm here!

1. I think I'd want to live with the woman first so we can truly get to know each other. I need to see if she's clean, if she snores, etc. Not saying I wouldn't marry her if she was a slob or snored, but at least I'd know what I was iin for and if I was up for the challenge.

2. Hmmm...good one. Probably spend it alone if I have 23 hours to play with. I'd include her in that other 23 hours, but I'd need time to clear my head and re-fuel.

3. I love tall, curvy women. Brooke is a good example of the body type I like :) Ciara's body from that video yesterday was kinda nice too, but I'd like more hips and breasts on her. Maybe Sanaa Lathan if she was a bit taller. I need to just stop.

4. If I couldn't make babies, I'd tell upfront. No need trying to deceive anyone. If she couldn't have children, but I felt she was the One, then we could adopt, but I'd want her to tell me upfront.

5. I'd halve my sexual desire. I have a strong sex drive, and I'd think the woman would be happy cuz I'd be giving her a break :) I'm crazy with it.

Jaz said...

1. I'd live with the guy first, but for no longer than a year.

2. I'd spend that hour alone sleeping.

3. I respond to tall men who have a nice booty :) Any football player or basketball player will do. Maybe Kobe.

4. I'd reveal that I couldn't have kids right away. And if he couldn't, I don't think I could be with him. So yea, a dealbreaker.

5. I'd double my sex drive since the guy I'm seeing now can't seem to get enough. Horn dog!

Anonymous said...

1) I lived with my shorty 3 years before we got engaged! The first year was rough!

2) I need alone time!

3) I like a girl with big country tatas, big country booty and a electric smile! I am 6'4" so I like my women between 5'3" to 5'8" Women 5'10 and above scare me when they put on heels and are almost looking me eye to eye! Like Leila Ali is fine but she just look like she would make me her bitch! (She probably would too!)

4)If I couldn't have children, gotta let my partner know. No need to waste someone's time!

5)I would halve it....I am a beast!

Which leads me to my own question. How many times should a couple have sex in one week? What is respectable?

Floyd

Anonymous said...

1.
Yes...2 years.
2.
by myself...

3. hips with a Fatty.
Meagan Goode.

4.
reveal... not a deal breaker...

5. Double...she would hate me cuz she would never sleep..and i would never go to work..LOL..sex is sooo good...you got double up!double the pleasure..double the fun..;0)

it's your booooy!

Brooke said...

Zay, you're funny :)

Floyd, what is respectable? Hmmm, probably once a day...but then again, I don't have kids and I know you have a newborn.

Maybe 5 times a week?

Jay said...

If you're a beast and you have a willing partner, then 10 times a week is respectable :)

ArrElle said...

1. I would live with my man for no more than 2 yrs.

2. Mostly by myself, I like to think and meditate so I can stay focused on my goals/aspirations

3. His chest, nice butt, pretty lips and eyes. The perfect example of a body type is Quarterback body type.

4. I would reveal it, don't want to waste his time. No it's not a dealbreaker for me because I believe I'm done with having children by choice

5. Since I'm not in a relationship for now I would double my desire since I don't get it in on a regular. Dude betta have his stamina up..LOL

ArrElle said...

Oooooo I forgot man with nice built arms, chisled stomach...okay I'm getting excited over here

Brooke said...

LOL!! Easy now ArrElle :)

Stef said...

I agree with Jay, 10 times is respectable! :)

Maybe cuz I'm not gettin any :(

Jaz said...

Why do tall men love short chicks?? I'm tall and I hate when I see a tall brother like Floyd with a 5'3 chick. That drives me bananas! Save the tall ones for us! Let them have the 5'8 dudes! LOL!

ArrElle said...

@Jaz, I'm 5'1 and I don't want a dude whose 5'8" (well ok at this point I will give him a chance if he matches up to mostly everything on my list..sigh) We can't help it if us short women like tall menz..LOL

Hmmm my word verification is "requit"?????

Anonymous said...

Respectable is ...at night...put it to sleep..and the wake up call..get it up and poppin in the morning...daily...and the weekends....no holds barred...

annamaria said...

Welllll Powerz is 5'11 & I'm 5feet on a good day & guess what I'M KEEPING HIM!!!! LOL sorry tall ladies..

Obviously I choose to live with my man before we get married. And it was a VERY smart move.

I would probably spend it with him

I'm attracted to TALL men. With awesome shoulders & arms.
If I couldn't have kids I disclose asap but if the situation was reversed I wouldn't consider it a deal breaker as long as adoption was an option.

I can't possibly double it because its not humanly possible BUT I wouldn't cut it in half either!!! Lol

And to answer the added question a LOT is a respectable amount! Lol don't use that newborn as an excuse they take naps!

Jaz said...

Well, I don't consider 5'11 to be really tall, so Annamaria is fine :) I'm talking about men at least 6 feet tall and over. The REALLY tall dudes. They always seem to have some really short woman on their arm...or hip :) What is it about tall women that they don't like? They don't want a woman looking them in the eye? I think that's just as shallow as a woman not wanting to date a short man. I've dated men shorter than me, and have no issue with is since it seems I HAVE to. But REALLY tall men seem to want small women, and I don't understand why. You'd think since they were tall they'd want a tall woman. Boggles my mind.

Brooke said...

I find it funny when short women, who are like 5'4 and under, call a man who's between 5'7 and 5'10 SHORT. To me, NO ONE who is 5'4 or shorter can call anyone else short, especially not if they have at least 3 inches on you :)

I'm 5'10, so a man who's 5'10, or 5'11 isn't short to me, he's just not really TALLER than me. So when I hear women who are like 5'3 say that a man who is 5'10 is SHORT, I feel like laughing. How silly is that? :)

Ms. Penn said...

@Jaz,

I feel your frustration. I'm 5'10 myself, and find that all the really tall men tend to date really short women. I can see why women like tall me, ALL women do. All women feel that a man should be taller than them in theory. But I date men shorter than me and have no problem with it. If a man chooses to date a short woman, so be it. But I hope it's not because they're intimidated by a woman looking them in the eye or one that will be taller than him with heels on. That's lame.

annamaria said...

Brooke: If a man can look me directly in the eye then fuck that I'm calling his ass short! Lol you know how lil my ass is! Lol

JAZ thanks for clarifying but I would have tased ur tall ass & kept him anyways!!! LOL

The Cable Guy said...

1. I have lived with someone before marriage. It was worth it even though the marriage didn't work out. I just didn't listen to my gut instincts.

2. I would spend it by myself. All men need an hour by themselves just to unwind.

3. I respond to TALL women despite all the talk on here today about that. I'm 6'1 1/2 and I don't care for short women that much. I like long legs and great smiles. Like B :)

4. I'd reveal that I couldn't have kids upfront and I probably wouldn't date a woman who couldn't give me a biological child. I know that may sound mean, but oh well. I'm being honest.

5. I'd double it. I have a strong sex drive now and if I had a partner who was great in bed and could hang, then I'd want it even more!

bonus: a respectable amount of sex a week is 14 times, twice a day!

Brooke said...

Well Annamaria, that's not what I said :) I said a short woman (your height) who can call a man who's between 5'7 and 5'10 short...she really can't. If a dude has 7 inches on you, then you can't really call him short :)

Jaz said...

@Annamaria,

You're too short to tase me! LOL!

Anonymous said...

Ok tall girls...I was playing! I dated this 5'11' woman from Jamaica who was absolutely gorgeous. I actually think tall women are exotic!! I was on Park Avenue the other day and saw this tall slender bitty and was like that is a piece of art that you just don't see everyday. Truth be told, I still tower over women that are 5'10. My joke is that any woman shorter than 6'0" is a shortie to me!

I really love you tall girls though.... ya'll allow for me to work on my post moves in the paint! I can easily shoot over my wife, but a woman that is 5'10 can at least get a hand in my face, maybe EVEN force me to alter the shot! LOL (That is just a little playoff humor) BTW my mom and sister are 5'8" and 5'10" respectively. I was just stirring the pot with my comment!

Floyd

Stef said...

yeah right Floyd! You know you meant that ish! LOL!

Anonymous said...

Nah tall women are THE SHIT! I cannot lie, seeing a woman with long ass legs is sezzzy as hell!! I watch America's Next Top Model! My wife jokes that I am going to leave her for a tall woman. She might be right! LOL!!

Floyd

momo925 said...

1. I would definitely want to live with him before I marry him. They say you don't truly know someone until you live with them lol.

2. with my partner (if I had one)

3. Usually tall and slim with muscle tone. I'm a sucker for a nice smile and a sense of humor though. The perfect body type...DARREN SHARPER! But hey thats definitely not what I end up with lol

4. Its best to be up front about it. Not sure that its a deal breaker.

5. not in a relationship right now but If I was I'd halve it. They usually can't keep up with the current drive. lol

And yes I'm still gonna call any dude under 5'10 short... Because they are compared to what I like and what I'm used to. lol

annamaria said...

Oooooohhhhhhh sorry about that then Brooke... You know I got a complex... But bust how some dude MY HEIGHT wanted to call me shorty one day??? I was like POT MEET KETTLE!!! Lol

JaZ I'll tase ur kneecaps! Then once u fall over I'd tase u in ur jugular!!!! LMAO I know how to handle u tall people! Lol

Anonymous said...

I love tall woman...love the legs...It's your boooooy!

Yolanda said...

Fashionably late to the par-tay...

Here goes.

1. Would you want to, or have you, lived with a prospective mate before getting married? If so, for about how long?

--> I'd like to shack up. I've heard pluses and minuses about it, but I'd probably go on and do it but not for any longer than 2 years.

2. If every day next year you had an extra hour of leisure, would you rather spend all of it with your partner or by yourself? It must be one or the other.

-->By myself, asleep!

3. What type of body do you respond to the strongest? Who comes to mind as the perfect example of that body type?

-->Tall, basketball player type. DWIGHT HOWARD! With a slightly bigger head-to-shoulder ratio.

4. You are beginning an exciting romance and learn that your partner, who badly wants children, would almost certainly leave you if he or she discovered that you were unable to have kids. If you were almost sure that you could never have a child, would you try to hide the fact for a while or reveal it right away? Is it a deal breaker for YOU if your new partner couldn't have children?

-->Oh see, I don't want kids. And any man I'm with would know that from the jump. No surprises.

5. If you could either double or halve your desire for sex, which would you do? How do you think your choice would affect your relationship (if you're in one)?

-->I'd probably halve it... I always seem to want it more than the dude does.

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