Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Happy New Year y’all! I hope you all had a great holiday and got to rest and relax and enjoy time with family and friends!
How appropriate is it that my first blog of 2011 falls on TMI Tuesday! I thought of asking Fury for a last minute post…or even reaching out to Domina*tricks, but a conversation with a friend prompted today’s TMI blog. If you don’t want to discuss fellatio or “going down town” as it’s commonly referred, then check back tomorrow :-)
Now, I’m not trying to be all nasty and nosey and whatnot…but how many of you engage in oral sex? If you do, do you enjoy it? If not, do you expect it done to you? Or can you take it or leave it?
The conversation I had was with a man who said he could take it or leave it. He doesn’t really do it, and if so, not often. He said he saves it for “special occasions.” However, he has no problem receiving it…loves it even. But when it comes to giving it, he says it’s something in his “bag of tricks” that he pulls out on Valentine’s Day, etc.
So my question to you all is this: is oral sex a deal breaker for you? Meaning if someone doesn’t give it or reciprocate, do you bounce? Or do you stay because the person’s other qualities more important and you can be satisfied sexually with just intercourse? Can you be totally sexually satisfied if oral sex is off the table…or sofa…or bed? ;-)
Everyone is different, so there are no right or wrong answers. Just curious….and after all…it IS TMI Tuesday! Let’s go!