Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Wet Dreams - De-Mystified!

Feliz Cinco de Mayo!

And Happy TMI Tuesday!

I'm going to apologize in advance if my blog is all over the place. I'm a little loopy from lack of good sleep and giving blood this morning. I always feel good after I give blood though - I may potentially save three lives with my donation today. So if the sight of needles doesn't make you dizzy, contact your local American Red Cross to find out how you can donate and possibly save a life.

That was my good deed for the day...now onto the topic at hand.

Since it's TMI Tuesday, I thought I'd share a lil somethin' with you guys. I have wet dreams. There, I said it. Not often, but I do. I dream so vividly that, well...let's just say I don't need any manual stimulation to...uh...release :-) It's all in my head, my subconscious self.

Yeah, I know right...TMI? Oh well.

But if I'm sexually deprived, frustrated, or even overstimulated - sex is no longer my subconscience - it's my SUPER conscience. As a very sexual being, I find that once I try to suppress my libido, or not give into it, my creative mind takes over and an element in me loses control over all my mental powers - my mind becomes a playground :)

Without provocation, erotics dreams take center stage. It has caused me to wake up to wet sheets and sticky thighs, heart pounding, mind racing and the cat looking at me like I'm an alien :-) I dream in full Technicolor and Dolby surround sound. No detail is fuzzy, and the sexual desires that I own are so natural to me that they're deeply embedded in my psyche, and it's like my dreams give way to a cleansing process.

Now, of course you all don't need to hear the very intimate details first-hand of my wet dream experiences, but I wonder what is the exact nature of the relationship between the so-called most base and the highest drive in human beings and our subconscious minds. There is definitely a link. We are bombarded with sexual content from print and advertisement media, TV , the Net - all over, which all can make people wonder that there must be more to it than we're getting. In this culture, I wonder if this constant reminder of sex makes us feel more unfulfilled than we actually are, or if the constant bombardment of super sex is a reflection of our natural selves. After all, sex is a very powerful drive. Can we ever get enough? Is there such a thing?

For me, it is, at times, an overpowering force that could rise out of nowhere and completely capture my attention. I can't and won't deny it, and it's always a mistake to underestimate its overwhelming power to create a delusion that the sexual instinct doesn't exist. But, as most women do, I long to have a romantic attachment to it. For most women, sex usually means bearing the emotional intensity and personal focus that goes along with it; and while the physical yearning is being addressed, the romantic impulse is usually left unfulfilled.

Knowing this, I try to suppress it, and I think my urges become an annoying distraction since there is no special union to share them with. So my dreams give way and I'm able to conserve the sexual energy that I would have spent on a non-fulfilling, non-romantical (I was looking for a reason to use Pretty Ricky's word) encounter.

Hey, not saying that everyone should suppress their urges...not saying that at all, do you! But for me, if there's no outlet, this is simply what happens to ME.

Now, all of this may sound like a scientific way of looking at wet dreams, but there are religions that speak to conserving sexual energy, sex and spirituality, sex and philosophy as well as modern medicine. Some find it fascinating that I can have the type of dreams where I feel everything, even if I'm not being touched; that my mind is so strong that it actually "liberates" me of any feelings of lust or cravings.

But I think it's something that we ALL can do, if we tap into it. While I don't think it's a special talent, I do think it should be celebrated. Chaturvedi Badrinath, an Indian journalist who specializes in spiritual/religious writing says, "sex can be transmuted into the highest form of spiritual energy. That can be done neither by confining sexuality within an arbitrary social order, nor by renouncing it, but by utmost submission to it. The cosmic energy stored in human sexuality can be released into human consciousness."

So there you have it. Nothing special. Nothing freaky. It all quite makes sense. I've given away the secret to my special talent :-) It's my brain's way of scratching an itch that simply needs to be scratched. Not subconscious, not super conscious, no higher, no lower - just is what it is. My wet dreams, de-mystified. Poof! done :)

-b

39 comments:

Latinegro said...

first...BITCHES!

Brooke said...

Ah, NOW it counts...prepare to be tased :-) LOL!

Latinegro said...

I would be lying if I said I didnt have wet dreams. I just do not have them very often.

I think you dream in 3D! Maybe you just need more sleep at night! I know I do...lol

Brooke said...

Maybe someone should stop keeping me up! LOL!!

My dreams need to be shown at IMAX! :)

Andre AKA The Black Cloud said...

I've had only two wet dreams lifetime. That all phenomenon is incredible to me and Brookey you are a lucky woman to get your release while you sleep. No harm no foul. My only two dreams happened in the prepubescent tween age.

Funny enough, one of the women I had a wet dream about, I actually had sex with years & years later. The real thing was so much better. LOL

Rameer said...

Errr...wow. What a topic!

I haven't had a wet dream since probably around age 13. I'm pretty sure that was the last time. I can have a dream about having or wanting sex, and that's just it. A dream. At most, I'll wake up ready 2 demolish some poontang pie, rock-hard and fully aroused from head to toe, inside and out.

To be honest, my dreams tend to be normal things - I don't have huge fantasies or great epic dreams like I did years ago. And one of those normal things is sex. But wet dreams? Can't say I've had 'em in eons.

But I HAVE thought I was having one...only to open my eyes to a woman I was seeing at the time trying to wake me up and ingest my kids...

One of the sexiest things in the world...waking up to a woman giving you head and giving her throat babies while she deep throats you...OH MY GOSH.

Yeah, it's TMI Tuesday, fa sho'...

Brooke said...

Definitely the best thing to wake up to :-)

"ingest my kids"...yeah, definitely TMI Tuesday :)

Dre, no wet dreams since you were a kid?

Am I the only one? ladies, speak up!

Annamaria said...

OK I am reading this while I am tasing Ant...LMAO

Brooke I love how you wrote this & like halfway in you tried to "clean it up" and make it sound all scientific & dignified...LMAO

I can only remember having one of these dreams maybe twice... BUT I do agree with Rameer there is NOTHING sexier than waking up being pleased & no better way to wake your man up on a rainy sunday morning than by... Well you get the hint...LMAO

FYI: Brooke I'm gonna need you to hurry up & have that party soon... One of my BOB's died.... :(

-V- said...

Wow, that's pretty cool.

Something I definitely didn't know about you.

I've never had one & have no idea why . I'm very visual & creative, plus I'm sexually free ... wait maybe that's it. Plus the fact that I started early.

There haven't been many dry-spells either ... hmmmm ...

Andre aka The Black Cloud said...

Nope not one since I was younger. But I like that Rameer started the convo and Annamaria continued it...cuz waking up to some pleasin' is the reason for the season...any season dammit.

Anonymous said...

Brooke..that intro had me wantin relations...lol. You are too much. I try to make all my dreams reality....so if i dream something 'nice" i try my best to execute shortly thereafter....ooow! And uuuuh...Brooke...call me....;0)

The Fury said...

I haven't had many wet dreams, but yours sound like so much fun. Brooke, you really need to have a camera record you when you have the dreams so you can see what you do in your sleep. Especially if your cat is looking at you crazy. You can set up a motion detector on the camera...or I'll happily tape it for you;-)

Brooke said...

LMAO!! "wanting relations"? For some reason I heard Madea's voice when I read that :) LOL!!

I agree with Annamaria, the best Sunday morning wake up call - giving or receiving... ;-) It's ALWAYS the season for that, ALWAYS!

V - no dry spells huh? Lucky you, I'm in a freaking drought right now, which is why my dreams are kickin in full force.

I need to have that toy party soon too - maybe that's why my dreams are waking me up all hot and bothered lately...my Bob has BEEN dead! Soon Annamaria, SOON!

Fury, so you'd be like those sleep doctors that record sleep walkers and people who snore huh? :) I can only imagine what I do, but I know that I make noise talk in my sleep cuz I've heard myself and woken myself up. I think that's why my cat is looking at me crazy, cuz he's wondering who I'm talking to :) I hope my neighbors don't hear me.

I don't have those dreams as much as when I'm in a relationship, but if I do have one, I usually just roll over and either "finish" or "continue." I think I scared my ex to death one time cuz I jumped him while he was still sleeping :) Once he started waking "up" tho it was all good :) LOL!!

Anonymous said...

Oh yeah...great job donating blood!! I work with ARC so it is appreciated!!! -Zay

Rameer said...

Nothin' better than a good wake-up call...I think we can ALL agree on that...

Drought my a$$, Brooke! What about the homies? The Stripper? The Cable Guy???

That's why WE couldn't progress...cuz you was out lookin' for "other options" before we could consummate our love...

***lips start trembling, lump in throat appears...cues up Chuckii Booker's "Turned Away"

Anonymous said...

B- I wrote that in the voice of Madea/Grandma Clump...lol..These shorties i know here in DC always talk about these "toy parties" they crack me up...I'm like...why dont you have a lingerie party and invite dudes..you get better results..Zay

Brooke said...

Toys are easier than trying to get a dude over. Apparently jump-offs and booty calls are not as reliable and dependable as they once were :) Dudes are getting lazy! LOL!!

Toys don't talk back, talk sh*t or get tired...so long as you keep the batteries charged :) LOL!!

...or so I've heard... ;-)

We can't consummate our love Rameer cuz you got mad girlfriends on Facebook! I never got busy with cable guy, didn't webcam any homies OR get with any strippers! Don't be tryna blame your lack of love on me!

The Cable Guy said...

Uh huh. You wouldn't be going through this problem if you just blogged me like your girls told you to!

The Fury said...

Yes I'll be your late night love doctor. And if you happen to wake up and need the real thing. Ahem...I'd be happy to prescribe you something;-)

One time, I had the sexiest dream of life. I woke up laying next to my girlfriend at the time and the thought actually occurred "damn I wish I was...hold the F#ck up!"

I slid under the covers and gave her a glorious late night wake up. She actually woke up shaking like "wtf!"

Brooke said...

Ooooh, getting all tingly. I may go to bed early tonight ;)

I'm still waiting on my mold(s) :)

Cable Guy, stop it!

Latinegro said...

Cable Guy...did you read about the dead fish post? I think you should...lol

Rameer said...

I was just IMing them girls - I was gon' get right back...lolz!

I DO NOT have Facebook girlfriends! Can I help it that (a) I'm a compulsive flirt and (b) unless it's my good peoples, I've always preferred the company of females? Hmm?

Ask anyone - even in college, if you didn't see me with my crew, it was probably with some female - and it DIDN'T mean we was doin' the Rabbit Dance! That's why most people to this day can't figure who I've gone out with or how long...I act the same with everyone, but never show my hand...

I thought it was me and you, Ms. Brookes - down the road - to the bank - while I'm here, I'd like to thank, Mom & Dad they knew the time...

...oh. Sorry...got carried away.

You broke my heart, Ms. Brookes! Own up to it!

***cues up New Edition remix..."S.U. Heartbreak"***


"People think I don't get lonely
but she's far away from home
One minute, 20,000 students
But when class lets out - I'm alone
It's off to my hometown city
Where everybody knows my name
When I think about Ms. Brookey
gettin' cable free - boy, it's just a shame..."

Brooke said...

LMAO!!! LMAO!!!

Rameer, you're crazy :) I didn't break your heart, stop it!

"dead fish"? Are you calling me a dead fish Ant?

The Cable Guy said...

Something tells me Brooke isn't a dead fish, but I'm willing to work with her if she is ;) Trust me, I won't be faking!

Latinegro said...

Brooke, I would never call you a dead fish. But I am sure you dont want the hassle of faking anything. I am sure the Cable Guy has feelings you dont want to hurt...lol

Brooke said...

I don't fake...simple as that. I don't think I've ever had to spare someone's feelings :)

Rameer said...

SEE? BLATANTLY HOOKING UP WITH THE CABLE GUY ON YOUR BLOG!!!

***cues up Usher's "You Got It Bad"...does Usher jerk-movement dance from video***

Brooke said...

How am I hooking up with the cable guy on my blog??? I didn't say anything about hooking up with anyone!!! Geesh!

The Cable Guy said...

Shit Brooke, HURT MY FEELINGS! I'm a grown ass man, you don't need to fake anything with me.

Rameer said...

SEE?!?

***cues up Phil Collins "Against All Odds", lights candle in solitude***

Brooke said...

That's HIM, not ME!!! LOL!!

Georgia Peach said...

Wow - what a wet topic. For me I can honestly say I haven't had a wet dream (that I recall). Most of my dreams revolve around food, work and fighting people. Figure that out if you can... anyhoo I'm glad to see that you're able to get off even in your dreams B. Wish it was something I could do - I'd probably be less frustrated (read angry) than I am now.

Brooke said...

Really? Never Glee? Okay, either I'm REALLY hard up, or you chicks are LYING!!! OR you all are gettin yours and just don't wanna tell! LOL!!

The Cable Guy said...

I live 15 minutes away...let me come fix you ;)

Georgia Peach said...

Not at all - I think you're probably just more evolved than I am. :o) I think it's great that you can get off in your dreams... I need visual and physical stimulation for that personally. Each person is different you know.

Brooke said...

True...but now I feel like a freak of nature :)

Anonymous said...

Wow!! I actually read this one with my zippers down. um...nevermind.

--Patrick

Craig n 'em said...

Brooke, you had me at "sticky thighs"....You made it move an inch to the left...TMI...

Merci Merc said...

:) Brooke you need help lol
I guess Im officially asking you and telling you lol

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