Are Women Comfortable With Porn?

Happy Monday!

Two things I want to discuss today...so let's see how this goes.

Last Friday I posted the clip "Marriage Negotiations" and said that until there is one made from the woman's perspective, we can discuss how unrealistic women's "lists" can be when it comes to finding a man. Well...now we have the clip, from the WOMAN'S perspective. Take a look:




I think we all agreed that both men AND women can be this extreme, so I just thought it would be funny to post a clip that shows what some of us women encounter in the dating world...especially here in the NYC. This is all meant for jokes, but there ARE people out there like this...so I'd love to hear any women's stories of men they've met like this.

The second thing I want to discuss is something I TOTALLY stole from Witches Brew today. It's a magazine cover featuring Melyssa Ford (stop drooling already) - but what I am really interested in is this quote from her interview in King. She said:

What I found was that it [porn] improved my technique. Porn made me less inhibited in the bedroom and more open to try new things. Women should get comfortable watching porn and not take offense to it. If your man is leaving your bedroom to go watch porn, you have an issue.

I guess she assumes most women are uncomfortable watching porn. This made me wonder, because I don't know any women who have expressed being uncomfortable with it, and I know some women who openly admit to having a pretty impressive collection of porn. But I'm curious to know from you...

Women: Are you uncomfortable watching porn (whether with your man or alone), or do you have it sitting in your dvd player as we speak?

Men: Do you find that most women you know are uncomfortable watching porn - either with you or alone - or do you think most women are open to experimenting/learning from it?

let's hear it!

Go!

-b