tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post6739155676208780735..comments2024-02-02T01:18:39.737-05:00Comments on Brookey's Cafe Blog: You Don't Get Your Man Back Like ThatBrookehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-51585750831976479232009-04-30T06:49:00.000-04:002009-04-30T06:49:00.000-04:00Love this topic - all i have to say is that I prob...Love this topic - all i have to say is that I prob agree more with LN, BUT and that's a big BUT, the cheating shouldn't be happening on either part. I hate that there is a double standard between men/women and that issue haunts me to this day in my interactions with the men in my life. I know how men think and for them sex is merely a physical thing so it's not "really" cheating. I HATE HATE HATE the double standard tho... grrrGeorgia Peachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02512812467528547952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-65545893917498477342009-04-28T18:55:00.000-04:002009-04-28T18:55:00.000-04:00I get why a man would be upset, but that doesn't m...I get why a man would be upset, but that doesn't mean the woman doesn't have the RIGHT to do it. She's under no obligation to follow any rules or not break any codes once a man wrongs her first.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-53923816020475750262009-04-28T18:38:00.000-04:002009-04-28T18:38:00.000-04:00The purpose of those songs are women that intentio...The purpose of those songs are women that intentionally sleep with your rival or the person you hate in order to spite you. It's like that one chick in the office your chick hates and you run and bag her. <br /><br />Y'all remember "Baby Boy"? Tarajii asked "why it had to be HER of all people?" when she thought Tyrese smashed her enemy. Sometimes that's worse than smashing the homies!!Andre aka The Black Cloudhttp://www.blackcloudfilms.com/blog.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-86829731539142030712009-04-28T17:37:00.000-04:002009-04-28T17:37:00.000-04:00You seem to have alot of music on hand over there ...You seem to have alot of music on hand over there Rameer :-) LOL!!<br /><br />I didn't violate NOTHING! ANYONE will tell you...I go to work, maybe to the gym, and then I go home. I'm not cheating on ANYONE. NO ONE is checking for me...I go home to my cat :-)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-29205011704406939042009-04-28T17:35:00.000-04:002009-04-28T17:35:00.000-04:00FULL OF IT!!! Conniver! Player!
And I'm saying if...FULL OF IT!!! Conniver! Player!<br /><br />And I'm saying if I was closer, I would do more - nothing about that statement says I'm NOT checking for you! It doesn't matter - you ALREADY violated!<br /><br />I shoulda known when you started webcamming homies...<br /><br />***cues up Toni Braxton's "Another Sad Love Song"***Rameernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-76136418372328748102009-04-28T17:26:00.000-04:002009-04-28T17:26:00.000-04:00How you gonna say "if you lived in closer proximit...How you gonna say "if you lived in closer proximity, I'd do more than check for you" - that indicates to me that since you're far away, you ain't really checking for me! :) LOL!<br /><br />I'm planning this party for ANNAMARIA!!! Not ME!! <br /><br />**winking at Annamaria*** ;-)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-69734802270881555482009-04-28T17:24:00.000-04:002009-04-28T17:24:00.000-04:00Pilar was - and still is - EXTREMELY delish. Not s...Pilar was - and still is - EXTREMELY delish. Not saying anything else...<br /><br />And you DID cheat on me! I was willing to make it work, over land, sea and air! But you? Noooooo - you just did a brother all greasy-like! And look at you - your insatiable hunger for strippers got you plannin' to have ANOTHER stripper party! Floozy!<br /><br />That's aight, though - the kid gon' BE ALRIGHT...<br /><br />***cues up Ne-Yo's "Go On Girl", sips tea and closes eyes***Rameernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-27876672668072927842009-04-28T17:09:00.000-04:002009-04-28T17:09:00.000-04:00YIIIIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE...YIIIIPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE<br /><br />I MAY ACTUALLY PUT THE TASER DOWN FOR A DAY OR TWO......lmaoAnnamarianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-61665905099972748252009-04-28T17:03:00.000-04:002009-04-28T17:03:00.000-04:00Yes, we can just plan a party with strippers..no e...Yes, we can just plan a party with strippers..no engagement necessary! LOL!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-47557310085211298892009-04-28T17:01:00.000-04:002009-04-28T17:01:00.000-04:00Brookey: nah a sister still just knocked up...LMAO...Brookey: nah a sister still just knocked up...LMAO Not engaged..LOL<br /><br />BUT I can still plan my bachelorette party can't I??? OR like I said we can get him for my baby shower! LMAO<br /><br />Rameer: This lil girl is going to take ALL of my money TRUST ME I KNOW... Soo there will be NONE left to pay for your hospital bills...LOL<br /><br />FLIRTING IS BAD! ; )Annamarianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-76126671556203429842009-04-28T16:44:00.000-04:002009-04-28T16:44:00.000-04:00Pilar was my best friend's roommate our senior yea...Pilar was my best friend's roommate our senior year.<br /><br />So, since we don't live in close proximity, then I didn't cheat on you! LOL!!<br /><br />and for the LAST TIME, I don't own a webcam, I don't mess with strippers and I TALK my way into getting free cable channels!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-52774584159281716612009-04-28T16:33:00.000-04:002009-04-28T16:33:00.000-04:00If I lived in closer proximity...I'd do more than ...If I lived in closer proximity...I'd do more than "check" for you...<br /><br />And I've been a flirt since the first girl I SAW at SU was Pilar! I was all in from that point on!<br /><br />But if anyone asks me something seriously, I'm always straight up... =)<br /><br />Annamaria...I'mma send you my hospital bills years from now when my body fails from unnecessary electro-shock...<br /><br />Ain't no JEST, Ms. Brookes! You webcamming homies, messin' with strippers, and gettin' free cable channels the old fashion way! Hmph! FreakyBrookey.com INDEED!!!Rameernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-60906554799784468352009-04-28T16:29:00.000-04:002009-04-28T16:29:00.000-04:00My stripper stories are in JEST! and you flirt mor...My stripper stories are in JEST! and you flirt more than I do! You ain't checkin for me for real for real :-)<br /><br />Annamaria, bachelorette party? You engaged and didn't tell nobody? :)<br /><br />I don't think Ant is saying it's okay to pay someone back, but I think he's saying what I'm saying in that the man expects some sort of loyalty from his woman even tho he's doing dirt. I agree with you Rameer that you should just leave if you don't trust the person.<br /><br />I never try to ge my own revenge, no matter how often I may dream about it :-) Takes too much energy, I just let the universe deal with it :)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-72065947963581246962009-04-28T16:13:00.000-04:002009-04-28T16:13:00.000-04:00I agree with Ant... KARMA IS A B*TCH SOOOO DON'T D...I agree with Ant... KARMA IS A B*TCH SOOOO DON'T DO NOTHING YOU AIN'T PREPARED TO HAVE DONE BACK TO YOU...<br /><br />Rameer: BBBBBUUUUUUUZZZZZZZZZZZZZ with a big smile on my innocent lil face while this lil girl kicks me in the rib..LOLAnnamarianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-70413967505310723422009-04-28T15:59:00.000-04:002009-04-28T15:59:00.000-04:00@ Brooke - I'm a flirt! I was just flirting with t...@ Brooke - I'm a flirt! I was just flirting with them girls, I was gon' get right back...lol!<br /><br />@ Annamaria - you keep your homicidal, trigger-happy arse out of me and Ms. Brookes love life!!! Lol!<br /><br />@ Ant - can't agree with you, bruh. I don't think ANYONE should get back like that at anyone - man OR woman. I think no one should cheat, and I def don't think you "get back" by cheating with the next person. All it does is lessen you for stooping to that level, and more than likely results in drama. <br /><br />Ideally, the best medicine is just to not cheat at all, and don't deal with people who don't see a problem with it or who may have the rep to have done it or have a willingness to do it. <br /><br />It rarely (if ever) makes you happy to be with someone, have them cheat on you, and then you go out and get some a$$ as payback - cuz you still have lost and/or been hurt by the person you REALLY care about. and one fleeting night or a fling with no meaning can't replace that. <br /><br />The nerve of you, Brooke - getting on ME for flirting! YOU flirt! You don't see no stripper stories coming from me, now do you??<br /><br />***cues up Isaac Hayes' version of "Walk On By", rocks back and forth with brow furrowed***Rameernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-18129388078498597012009-04-28T15:56:00.000-04:002009-04-28T15:56:00.000-04:00It is such a pussy way of looking at things...
oh...It is such a pussy way of looking at things...<br /><br />oh..dont get me back like that!<br /><br />Boo fucking Hoo! What did you think would happen?Anthony Oterohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05818411014851299966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-83823135208545328242009-04-28T15:53:00.000-04:002009-04-28T15:53:00.000-04:00I agree Ant. When I first heard that song with Gho...I agree Ant. When I first heard that song with Ghost Face and NeYo, I'm like "what do they mean you don't get your man back like that"? I could see if she got him back by sleeping with his boy, but they're saying "knowing that me and this dude ain't friends."<br /><br />huh?<br /><br />Since when does a woman have to abide by some code if the man broke the rules first? I don't understand that. <br /><br />"what I did was wack but you don't get a man back like that?"<br /><br />Why not?? If he wasn't thinking about you and cheated on you, why should the woman care about HIS feelings? That's buffoonery to me.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-35626561990702557592009-04-28T15:50:00.000-04:002009-04-28T15:50:00.000-04:00Sigh. You know, based on my own relationship issue...Sigh. You know, based on my own relationship issues, I have tried to stay away from many of these conversations. I just feel I need to say this.<br /><br />God Bless woman who can forgive a man for doing something so stupid as to cheat on her. Guys talk about having a side piece like it is the good shit and it is not. I think that women are capable of forgiveness more than a man.<br /><br />However...I will have to disagree with most of men and say...hell yeah, you get that MF back! I believe in fair play. If a man is all about his getting ass on the side then he opens himself up for getting it done to him.<br /><br />...and trust me...karma is a bitch!Anthony Oterohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05818411014851299966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-85066128302481618322009-04-28T15:46:00.000-04:002009-04-28T15:46:00.000-04:00Brooke I will lend you my taser if you want.... :)...Brooke I will lend you my taser if you want.... :)Annamarianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-8510044726964411112009-04-28T15:37:00.001-04:002009-04-28T15:37:00.001-04:00oh stop it! you flirt with no less than 10 women a...oh stop it! you flirt with no less than 10 women a day on FB that I know of, so if anyone's cheating, it's YOU!<br /><br />***now MY feelings are hurt** :-(Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-7400742777813150082009-04-28T15:37:00.000-04:002009-04-28T15:37:00.000-04:00Brooke can you keep the strippers number for my ba...Brooke can you keep the strippers number for my bachelorette party???? LMAO<br /><br />Or my baby shower.. LMAO...Annamarianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-1374675100623712712009-04-28T15:25:00.000-04:002009-04-28T15:25:00.000-04:00NO YOU'RE NOT!!! CHEATER!!!
Maliek is the only on...NO YOU'RE NOT!!! CHEATER!!!<br /><br />Maliek is the only one who feels my pain (sob!)...<br /><br />And you wonder why all the guys like Danger...at least we know what we're getting with her...<br /><br />***holds head in hands, cues up K-Ci Hailey's version of "If You Think You're Lonely Now"***Rameernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-79361833133356744982009-04-28T15:03:00.000-04:002009-04-28T15:03:00.000-04:00guess I should lose the striper's number then so y...guess I should lose the striper's number then so you don't leave me ;-) LOL!!<br /><br /><br />KIDDING!!!!!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-71686439151869303362009-04-28T14:56:00.000-04:002009-04-28T14:56:00.000-04:00I think that's a silly question to ask me, but I'l...I think that's a silly question to ask me, but I'll answer - OF COURSE. It's not gender specific...it's about valuing yourself. But then again, you gotta be on the up and up too.<br /><br />I will say this - I can see a bit of hypocrisy in some of what I've written knowing my own past...while I haven't been one to cheat on people, I stole A LOT of girls from other dudes in my day when I was a young buck. But, then again, if those dudes somehow came to know me and threw out a theoretical question about should they leave their women cuz they suspected she was cheatin' - I'd still say "HELL YEAH if you know she's cheatin'!!!"<br /><br />I actually am not tight with any cheaters...not my thing. I know plenty, and may have a cool relationship with some, but I don't allow those types in my inner circle at all...at least once I grew up. <br /><br />It IS harder for women and men once children are involved...but for me? You gots to get gone you cheat one me, regardless of circumstances.Rameernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-43839442263077852702009-04-28T14:32:00.000-04:002009-04-28T14:32:00.000-04:00Okay, so do you believe that for women as well? Do...Okay, so do you believe that for women as well? Do you think all women should leave a man who cheats on them?Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.com