tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post1686398331847624668..comments2024-02-02T01:18:39.737-05:00Comments on Brookey's Cafe Blog: Office NookyBrookehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-64452786406558635742009-06-23T22:37:42.851-04:002009-06-23T22:37:42.851-04:00Just wanted to stop by and say hi. Like the new l...Just wanted to stop by and say hi. Like the new look. I'm so far behind on all the blog reading, but I'll try to get back into it when I'm on vacation next week!Georgia Peachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02512812467528547952noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-19801079844218675872009-06-23T18:00:30.031-04:002009-06-23T18:00:30.031-04:00Wow.
Hopefully, these rules fall in our "co...Wow. <br /><br />Hopefully, these rules fall in our "common sense" wheelhouse collectively. But, as history has shown us, even when the 10 commandments were etched on stone tablets by god's hand, placed next to a burning bush, and "world premiered" by Moses, folks were STILL clowning. <br /><br />Honestly, Biggie's 10 crack commandments are also quite applicable to the worklove scenarios. Feel free to peruse the Life after death for a refresher. The similarity is startling - really. <br /><br />Meanwhile, there's also the part where somebody forgets who they are, as well as WHERE they are when an argument/disagreement goes down. Basically, your BS at home is now at work too. No escape. <br /><br />Brooke's rules seemed to be for "Good times" but what about the stick of Dyn-O-mite when things go bad?? Now, That's when it gets dicey. <br /><br />Excellent information, but hopefully that was one you've already grown on. <br /><br />Stay thirsty my friends. <br /><br />DMoe aka Slim BeamDMoehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15121073476554198739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-44465807575294006242009-06-23T17:49:45.700-04:002009-06-23T17:49:45.700-04:00Hey I've seen some stuff and I'm like (com...Hey I've seen some stuff and I'm like (come on...not in the office parking lot)! LOL!Serena W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08899725312118622702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-89508339014824396502009-06-23T17:31:10.735-04:002009-06-23T17:31:10.735-04:00LMAO!!
The parking lot Serena???LMAO!!<br /><br />The parking lot Serena???Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-92089478998621898902009-06-23T17:19:31.901-04:002009-06-23T17:19:31.901-04:00I did it once...bad move. I was young and dumb (23...I did it once...bad move. I was young and dumb (23 to be exact). Ever since then it's a big no no for me.<br /><br />I agree with the rules too...one more to add. No doing the do in the parking lot at your job. Move the dag on car at least lol!Serena W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08899725312118622702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-82237636916999718572009-06-23T16:33:26.746-04:002009-06-23T16:33:26.746-04:00Deal :-)Deal :-)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-5644292108990613142009-06-23T16:31:57.663-04:002009-06-23T16:31:57.663-04:00I thought about it...But I don't think I can. ...I thought about it...But I don't think I can. These people at work are kicking my a$$ with projects. Tell you what...if I can write it and get it to you tonight, then all good. Otherwise, count me off the list of potentials...Rameernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-84610339163427132842009-06-23T16:19:56.112-04:002009-06-23T16:19:56.112-04:00Rameer, you always got mad stories! LOL!!
why don...Rameer, you always got mad stories! LOL!!<br /><br />why don't you guest for me on Friday - Craig is busy :)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-27419157948674142212009-06-23T15:00:27.596-04:002009-06-23T15:00:27.596-04:00I'm smooth as hell with mine. I've had 3 w...I'm smooth as hell with mine. I've had 3 women I worked with that I've hooked up with...and to this day, NO ONE at my job knows. They've spent years trying to guess who I've messed with...which is impossible, cuz I'm ALWAYS real cool with all the ladies, and don't actually act any different with any of them in public. And the women I'm cool with tend to speak glowingly of me...so the women I'm NOT close with and the gossipy men are always speculating on who I've done or am doing the deed with. <br /><br />The rule is - whomever you guess I'm with, I'm not. One woman I thought was pretty blatant about - I even TRIED to tell people. No one got it until she didn't work there for like a year and we had been over. Idiots...<br /><br />As far as interns go - I've never violated that line, and doubt I would. But the Panamanian intern is soooooo tempting it ain't even funny...<br /><br />The funny instance of a office nooky - the only time I've actually REALLY revealed a workplace dalliance - it was actually a woman who didn't work with me. She was associated with my media group (it's independent of my job). She used to come to some of the production meetings of a show I used to work on. She was BAD...I mean, the dudes used to trip over their tongues for her. Oddly enough, these jabronis never noticed she ALWAYS sat next to or real close to me. And always was looking for me if I wasn't in the room...but she was pretty discreet.<br /><br />One time this chick in the meeting goes off and tries to call me out like I couldn't get a chick of her caliber (this woman had an over-inflated sense of herself...she looked like a bulldog. All she had was a big a$$...but I digress). As this argument gets sillier and stupider, I let her know that the women I've dated...she isn't even as attractive as their pinky toes. She starts going on about how any guy can say that and usually does when he ain't got no bad chicks, etc.<br /><br />I let my anger overtake the situation..."why the hell do you think SHE'S here every week?!?" I blurted out as I pointed in her direction. "She ain't hear to see YO Rottweiler a$$, that's for sure!"<br /><br />Chick - stunned. Room - stunned. Woman I was dealing with? Highly amused (and making a quick exit, I might add). <br /><br />That's the only time I ever admitted dealing with anyone around the job...and I had to field questions for weeks on that "how long you been messing with her? Damn, you was mad smooth with that - you ain't say nothing when we used to talk about her/kick it to her."<br /><br />I don't know if I recommend office nooky, and can't say I've done it a lot. But I HAVE done it, and HAVE followed Brooke's rules...and I've never had it be an issue.Rameernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-57112695406397020512009-06-23T13:35:41.403-04:002009-06-23T13:35:41.403-04:00I'm sure dating in the military is a strict no...I'm sure dating in the military is a strict no-no D, I can't even imagine. <br /><br />and no, not eyeing any interns! I already told you, NO INTERNS. <br /><br />Besides, all of our interns are female ;)<br /><br />I'm safe in the office, trust me.<br /><br />Cable guy, I was looking BUSTED that day! and I STILL bagged you? LOL!! That was funny :)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-63702481574481731622009-06-23T13:26:05.745-04:002009-06-23T13:26:05.745-04:00Office Nooky, Brooke we have to get you out of the...Office Nooky, Brooke we have to get you out of the office!! You must be eyeing one of the new interns. Well let's just say in the Army you have no time for that. I mean don't get me wrong sometimes there are a bunch of honeys in your office. In my case most of them end up working for me and calling me Sir all day. Protocol dictates a couple of other customs and courtesies that have to be strictly adhered to in the office as well. Like when I speak to a subordinate they should standup at the position of attention and talk. They also must announce to everyone that I am entering or leaving the building for the day! As drunk as I could get with power and as many cutie pies that I have had work for me, I could not even ask them out on date!!! And they dare not flirt with me! <br /> <br />Dating someone of equal rank is not too different. You want to keep your business to yourself. Bottom line you don't sleep with the help; ever! I barely wanted to date a woman on the same military base. As a matter of fact my fiance (another SU alum!) was on a base about 2 hours away Korea when we were dating.DMurraynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-90035439279445454122009-06-23T13:12:19.854-04:002009-06-23T13:12:19.854-04:00Well, as the cable guy, I meet women at work all t...Well, as the cable guy, I meet women at work all the time. You'd be surprised how these women come to the door - dressed, not dressed. I don't mess around with customers though because if something goes wrong, then Time Warner will be up my ass :)<br /><br />One woman locked me in her place! I had to call Time Warner to send someone to get me out! LOL!!<br /><br />You're the only woman who I considered worthy to break my rule. And you came to the door in an Eagles jersey, sweats and a scarf on your head at 8:30 in the morning...looking adorable as ever. I'd STILL break my rule for you Brookeybaby!The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-87011602517490229732009-06-23T12:20:12.749-04:002009-06-23T12:20:12.749-04:00Yolanda, I agree with you about where to meet peop...Yolanda, I agree with you about where to meet people nowadays. Anyone who knows me knows I work long hours. Couple that with the fact that I'm disengaged from the "club" scene and Craig's list is looking pretty good right about now :) I meet people in unexpected places when I least expect it, but not often enough. Work is the only place I spend a significant amount of time and mingle with folks. So I hear you. Too bad all the men at A&E are either married or gay. <br /><br />AH - I'm shocked at your story! LOL!! **sneaky grin** ? I violated my own rule #10 myself, but I was 22 and simple :) Was fun tho! I was gonna save that lil nugget for TMI Tuesday - but...today IS Tuesday right? :) <br /><br />Anyway, I guess if the two people involved are mature and sane, then it can work with no hard feelings. But it's hard if you catch feelings and have to see that person everyday. I still think it's best to date someone at work who is at least on another floor or building. If they're in your dept. that could be a disaster.<br /><br />Oh, and if he's a "serial office dater" then no...no haps. The dude (or girl) who makes his way around at work is just gross...no discretion.<br /><br />Sounds like AH has a few blogs for another day brewing :)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-47813584079727741042009-06-23T12:06:38.758-04:002009-06-23T12:06:38.758-04:00LOL!!!! I've actually had an Office Romance.....LOL!!!! I've actually had an Office Romance...actually, he worked in a different department but his line of work required him or another worker to come over often. It was an open relationship with the understanding--don't disrespect me by hitting on someone else in the office/my friends while we're together. Yeah...so what...we violated rule #10....*sneaky grin* but we had doors. Sue me! Unfortunately, we had a lot of mutual friends at work...(which mutal friends and dating is a WHOLE different blog) and many people figured it out. That aspect didn't matter because there was no policy and we were adults. What was funny...is we (office workers in my suite/department) would often close our doors for lunch....which means: we aren't here, come back later, send an email, etc. If my (then new) interim boss thought my "friend" was there, he would keep knocking on the door for about 2 minutes...which is a long time to knock....and I would just ignore it. The first time it happened, I opened it and all he wanted was to tell me Starbucks was giving the next day....sooooo that info couldn't wait till after lunch???....(nosey butt). Other times, we were continue eating our lunch, watching youtube or whatever. We were smart enough not to violate #10 DURING office hours especially considering I was on the ground floor and the blinds didn't completely over the windows.<br /><br />As for Rule #2....he ended up telling me he had dated another person in the department (in neither one of our specific offices) 6 months before we started hard core hanging out.....long story short, she saw the attraction starting and had no nice words for me...of course, all behind my back. He waited to tell me once he realized that she and I were just work worked for the same people...no interaction and no friendship outside of large group happy hours/holiday parties/etc and that he and I may have actually gone somewhere (in the relationship). They had been completely over for about a year. She ended up switching jobs (not because of him)....about a year later I switched jobs....our up/down/on/off involvement lasted a little over 3 years. I don't regret it because it did get pretty serious....but ended HORRIBLY...but we got close again in 2007 as JUST FRIENDS (even though he'll hint at more....I enjoy our friendship just like this)....however, I DO regret how many mutual co-worker friendships we had while I was working there....that was the worse part of things....but...that's another blog for another day....AHnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-41957603516734045862009-06-23T11:54:56.318-04:002009-06-23T11:54:56.318-04:00I've done it three times (once was just a date...I've done it three times (once was just a date, the 2nd time was a several year friends w/ bennies thing and the third is on-going - though I got a new job when my division folded)... as long as you're discreet about it and that person doesn't work in your immediate department, you can make it happen.<br /><br />It may not be recommended but think about it, you spend at least 40 hours a week in the workplace, it's bound to happen. You work at the same place, chances are you have similar interests and goals, and where else are you supposed to meet people these days...? On CraigsList?Yolandahttp://lawitchesbrew.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-33290271224744285042009-06-23T10:59:30.717-04:002009-06-23T10:59:30.717-04:00V- good idea! Never thought of that, hmmmmm.....V- good idea! Never thought of that, hmmmmm.....Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-34914945530416796532009-06-23T10:57:27.974-04:002009-06-23T10:57:27.974-04:00I always used to wait 'til they quit (or got f...I always used to wait 'til they quit (or got fired) and take them out for "Farewell Cocktails."<br /><br />No fuss, no muss.-V-noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-28028374076293626912009-06-23T10:53:51.577-04:002009-06-23T10:53:51.577-04:00I see you took me up on my blog topic - now you ju...I see you took me up on my blog topic - now you just need to take me up on my work place romance offer ;) I don't even work in your city, let alone the same building or dept. <br /><br />You look cute today by the way ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-20215676336566591302009-06-23T10:51:39.053-04:002009-06-23T10:51:39.053-04:00Tiswana got mad jokes!! LOL!!
Annamaria, you two ...Tiswana got mad jokes!! LOL!!<br /><br />Annamaria, you two did things the right way. My friend Val met her husband at work too...both lawyers for the city. So it CAN work.<br /><br />Mo, I hear you. You and I already talked about this one ;)<br /><br />Yolanda, you stupid :) But I agree, lie til a new world's been built! LOL!<br /><br />Anonymous - lesson learned huh?Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-6620898877485777762009-06-23T10:49:13.504-04:002009-06-23T10:49:13.504-04:00I had a case of office nooky and it turned out hor...I had a case of office nooky and it turned out horrible. I was younger and a supervisor and I should not have done it as this woman I had this fling with was not very talented and wanted me to cover her shortcomings.<br /><br />I will never do it again, no matter how good the woman looks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-86862354717399411702009-06-23T10:47:37.317-04:002009-06-23T10:47:37.317-04:00Brookey,
Hmmm...I remember how you said you used t...Brookey,<br />Hmmm...I remember how you said you used to love having "lunch" in the conference room. That is until they renovated it and added glass walls. Now we know!Tiswanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16886854127480214135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-46656003497286319942009-06-23T10:45:25.411-04:002009-06-23T10:45:25.411-04:00Another rule...
DENY
DENY
DENY!
"Huh, me and...Another rule...<br />DENY<br />DENY<br />DENY!<br /><br />"Huh, me and who? You're joking right?"<br />(*secretly touching him under the conference table*)Yolandahttp://lawitchesbrew.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-53439247689124857032009-06-23T10:43:29.632-04:002009-06-23T10:43:29.632-04:00I have never had an office romance nor will I ever...I have never had an office romance nor will I ever. I find that the workplace is no place to look for love lol. It's just too close for comfort. Great rules Brooke! I think I will still pass :-)momo925https://www.blogger.com/profile/01177853540845921865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-41749167258196939232009-06-23T10:40:18.142-04:002009-06-23T10:40:18.142-04:00Brooke GREAT RULES!!!! Although I can't talk t...Brooke GREAT RULES!!!! Although I can't talk too much crap. Austin & I met at work years ago. BUT things were different & we waited til we didn't work together to get to where we at now. All in all I think things turned out pretty darn good!Annamarianoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-86002435224788250002009-06-23T10:30:00.417-04:002009-06-23T10:30:00.417-04:00...and look how that turned out..lol...and look how that turned out..lolAnthony Oterohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05818411014851299966noreply@blogger.com