tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post522210484516372028..comments2024-02-02T01:18:39.737-05:00Comments on Brookey's Cafe Blog: Being a Baby DaddyBrookehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comBlogger37125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-51495985152583385712010-06-17T09:08:07.357-04:002010-06-17T09:08:07.357-04:00Great Blog!!!Great Blog!!!Geeque4unoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-3253088212105863192010-06-15T10:55:02.402-04:002010-06-15T10:55:02.402-04:00I'm just now seeing these posts - thanks alot ...I'm just now seeing these posts - thanks alot everyone!<br /><br />I agree, Brookey would make an EXCELLENT Step Mom! LOL!!The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-74961589948866033912010-06-14T22:17:10.114-04:002010-06-14T22:17:10.114-04:00Cable Guy, I heart you.
This was sweet and heart...Cable Guy, I heart you. <br /><br />This was sweet and heartfelt. I enjoyed reading it. Best of luck to you and your boy! And the ex :-)Yolandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12522625214853436462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-55046385366962407492010-06-14T19:06:49.702-04:002010-06-14T19:06:49.702-04:00Cable Guy...
Excellent blog bruh.
Far too often...Cable Guy...<br /><br />Excellent blog bruh. <br /><br />Far too often, sentiments like yours get lost in the shuffle of life. <br /><br />That was a great read, and keep the faith. <br /><br />DMoeDMoehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15121073476554198739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-9261615186635226112010-06-14T18:59:57.081-04:002010-06-14T18:59:57.081-04:00What a beautiful read!!! God bless you Cable Guy....What a beautiful read!!! God bless you Cable Guy. Keep on being a great example, role model and guide for your son and other men out there. Good job. <br /><br />Hope you have a wonderful Father's Day. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-52047615603666545822010-06-14T18:40:56.827-04:002010-06-14T18:40:56.827-04:00I don't usually read this late BUT I was onlin...I don't usually read this late BUT I was online & decided to look..LOL<br /><br />PUTTING DOWN MY TASER & GIVING A STANDING OVATION TO BABY MAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!<br /><br />BOY do I wish you was Powerz ex rather than cable guy's ex... LMAO...It would make MY life waaaayyyyyy easier & less full of drama which would benefit EVERYONE especially the kids...<br /><br />Props to you BOTH for being mature & putting your child first as it should be. You guys may have made mistakes BUT you have risen above them with CLASS & wonderfully. I hope you all continue to have nothing but all of the joy & blessings that life have to offer....<br /><br />Baby mama: If Brooke ever does decide to give Cable Guy a chance she'll treat your son like the prince he is.. I promise.. I take stepmom just as seriously as I take mommy so I will tase her if she ever slacked off...But she wouldn't its not in her natureA-buzzzznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-30818420026788068492010-06-14T18:24:10.165-04:002010-06-14T18:24:10.165-04:00Thanks Jaz!Thanks Jaz!The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-43091769861624796902010-06-14T18:19:56.731-04:002010-06-14T18:19:56.731-04:00I'm late to this one, but GREAT BLOG Cable Guy...I'm late to this one, but GREAT BLOG Cable Guy! And kudos to you too Baby Mama :) You both are great parents and mature adults, and your son will benefit from your sacrifices and good judgment!Jaznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-57326435825941323962010-06-14T17:58:45.155-04:002010-06-14T17:58:45.155-04:00Kick rocks Stef! Hater! LOL!Kick rocks Stef! Hater! LOL!The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-48061601403763570972010-06-14T17:48:04.849-04:002010-06-14T17:48:04.849-04:00Wow, who would'a thunk Cable Guy is a good dad...Wow, who would'a thunk Cable Guy is a good daddy...and has a sane baby mama!? LOL! <br /><br />Just kidding...I had to bring back our bickering...feels weird not fighting with you :)<br /><br />That being said, Brooke STILL don't want you MAN! But I'm sure you'll make a good husband for someone ELSE! LMAO!Stefnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-48049914858821293482010-06-14T17:46:42.258-04:002010-06-14T17:46:42.258-04:00Thanks Serena and Brooke!
I grew up with my dad i...Thanks Serena and Brooke!<br /><br />I grew up with my dad in the home, as you read, and he instilled values in me that I still carry to this day. Unfortunately, not having sex before marriage was one of the values that didn't take hold :) LOL! I know my father meant well when he "suggested" we get married, but people shouldn't force a situation as a result of their mistakes. I know that now. <br /><br />I hope that Rob and I will be successful in teaching our son right from wrong, but also that if he makes a mistake, it's his to make and we won't interfere to the point where it makes him unhappy. We'll always be there for him no matter what happens, and that's what we want him to know.Baby Mamanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-42234371707274876932010-06-14T17:38:33.998-04:002010-06-14T17:38:33.998-04:00Yes, I read it :) And I'm sure you're a gr...Yes, I read it :) And I'm sure you're a great guy. Your dedication to your son proves that. The fact that both of you are mature enough to make the decision to live apart so that your son can have the best of both parents shows that you both are amazing people. Not everyone can set their pride and emotions aside to do what's best for their child. So often, the child gets caught in the crossfire of warring parents - and the parents are so blinded by ignorance, pride or hatred that they don't even see what they're doing to their children.<br /><br />You both are to be commended.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-10854532586291191442010-06-14T17:34:36.697-04:002010-06-14T17:34:36.697-04:00Thank you Serena...and thanks to my baby mama :) L...Thank you Serena...and thanks to my baby mama :) LOL! It feels weird calling her that, because I think she's more than that, but that's who she is :)<br /><br />Baby Mama and Baby Daddy have such negative connotations, but it shouldn't have to be that way. We were once married, it just didn't work out. I take pride in the fact that we can put our differences aside for our son's sake.<br /><br />Your father missed out on alot Serena. I won't make that mistake.<br /><br />Brooke - did you read what my baby mama wrote? You got her cosign! LOL!The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-13752733559245421062010-06-14T17:27:10.452-04:002010-06-14T17:27:10.452-04:00Cable Guy...I'm so touched! Dad missed out on ...Cable Guy...I'm so touched! Dad missed out on me, two other sister and a brother (that's a blog in itself) Thank you...<br /><br />Hats go off to my Papa (my grandfather rocked) and I love him. He's been gone for 9 years but his lessons stay with me for an eternity.<br /><br />I wish there were more parent's like yourself and your son's mother. Friends that could be great parents without all the bickering and chaos.<br /><br />Your son is blessed to have parents like the both of you ;)Serena W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08899725312118622702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-23480765616016911412010-06-14T17:21:42.661-04:002010-06-14T17:21:42.661-04:00Hey everyone!
I read Brooke's blog from time ...Hey everyone!<br /><br />I read Brooke's blog from time to time, but keep quiet and just read the shananigans that go on - especially between (Rob) Cable Guy and Stef :) <br /><br />But today I felt compelled to share what a great father Rob is to our son. He did ask me if it was okay to write this blog and I gave my blessing because everything happened exactly as he described...even up to the ass up in the shower part! lol <br /><br />We both take responsibility for our son, and I had to learn to let go and let him be a father to his child to raise him into a man. Rob wasnt' always that man, but from the moment our son was born, he has stepped up and been there with me the entire way. It was scary, we made mistakes, but we are making it. And we're making it as friends and co-parents, not as exes who have bitterness in their hearts. It took a while to get there, but we're here now because we love our son.<br /><br />Brooke - I know you're a lil bit older than Rob, but he's a good guy. He told me to write that! LOL!<br /><br />Seriously though, he's a great father and will make someone ELSE a great husband one day.Baby Mamanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-22414418654667967572010-06-14T17:05:00.741-04:002010-06-14T17:05:00.741-04:00Thank you Serena!
And is seems as though your fat...Thank you Serena!<br /><br />And is seems as though your father missed out on what a wonderful daughter you are. I would never want to miss out on what a wondeful child my son is and grows up to be, and I would never want my son to think that I skipped out on him. <br /><br />You are an amazing woman despite not knowing your father. The children you have one day will be so blessed!The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-24577093029061416912010-06-14T16:54:46.627-04:002010-06-14T16:54:46.627-04:00Standing Ovation from DMV (DC/MD/VA). I applaud yo...Standing Ovation from DMV (DC/MD/VA). I applaud you for taking your responsibility and being a real Dad. My father didn't know how and ran from his responsibility. End result was me never knowing him at all.<br /><br />Mom spoke highly of him and I knew of his gifts and talents. But he was just messed up :(<br /><br />But you are the example of the fathers that do stand up, love their children, learn from your mistakes and move on.<br /><br />Your son has a great man to look up too and he won't settle Cable Guy because his parents didn't.<br /><br />Much props to you my friend!Serena W.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08899725312118622702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-70791701334213666872010-06-14T16:37:34.292-04:002010-06-14T16:37:34.292-04:00Thanks Ms. Penn!
I hope to have more children one...Thanks Ms. Penn!<br /><br />I hope to have more children one day, and if I have a daugher, I'll take raising her just as seriously as I do my son.<br /><br />Maybe Brooke and I will have a daughter one day...once she realizes she loves me :) LOL!The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-85259699199108975362010-06-14T16:18:37.256-04:002010-06-14T16:18:37.256-04:00Hello everyone!
I've been MIA for a minute, b...Hello everyone!<br /><br />I've been MIA for a minute, but still reading daily, and this post was great! Cable Guy, my congrats to you on doing what is necessary to make sure your son is healthy and happy.<br /><br />And Annamaria is right, daughters need their fathers just as much as their sons do. In some cases, more, because the first men in a little girl's life is...or SHOUDL be...her father. If he's not present, abandonment issues can arise. And if he's only half way present, then she'll think it's okay for men to be in and out of her life, with no responsibility or accountability, and will allow a man to treat her with disrespect. It's just as important for little girls and boys to see their parents act civily towards each other so that neither grows up resenting the opposite sex - or think it's okay to act in a bad manner simply because things didn't go their way.<br /><br />I applaud you, not for taking care of your son...because that's what you're supposed to do...but for deciding to be happy for yourself first so that you can pass that happiness onto your child.Ms. Pennnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-80295793573834590882010-06-14T16:11:23.518-04:002010-06-14T16:11:23.518-04:00I definitely understand the role a man plays in ra...I definitely understand the role a man plays in raising his sons. I don't care what anyone says only a man can teach his son how to be a MAN.. So you guys definitely have to be a MAN when stepping up to the plate.. <br /><br />Men I hope you also know how important it is to be there for your daughters. The way you love your little girls will shape them for the rest of your lives. Sophia loves me BUT she is DEFINITELY Daddy's lil brat. And so is Jada. And the way Powerz treats his little girls will help them pick a mate & how to demand to be treated with respect & love.A-buzzznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-74046810393510362632010-06-14T15:20:13.657-04:002010-06-14T15:20:13.657-04:00Thanks everyone, and thanks DMurray, I totally agr...Thanks everyone, and thanks DMurray, I totally agree.The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-73370088235747355192010-06-14T14:11:14.563-04:002010-06-14T14:11:14.563-04:00Cable Guy,
Good stuff dude. I know from personal...Cable Guy, <br /><br />Good stuff dude. I know from personal experience that divorcing with a young boy in the home is difficult. We owe it to our sons to be raise strong men no matter the circumstance. It is equally important for the mothers to realize this and mature to a point we can all be effective parents. Our relationships did not work out but the bonds we forge with our boy must!DMURRAYnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-69217741149481826722010-06-14T14:08:57.924-04:002010-06-14T14:08:57.924-04:00Great Blog Cable Guy!!Great Blog Cable Guy!!JUSTBNMEnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-63811930520343048892010-06-14T13:45:04.815-04:002010-06-14T13:45:04.815-04:00Thanks Rameer!
Annamaria, put the taser down! :-)...Thanks Rameer!<br /><br />Annamaria, put the taser down! :-)The Cable Guynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-31285131322124901852010-06-14T13:33:57.547-04:002010-06-14T13:33:57.547-04:00Powerz.... just know that if we don't work out...Powerz.... just know that if we don't work out. I will let you see Sophia whenever you want.. BUT I will teach her to tase you in your sleep!!! :)A-buzzznoreply@blogger.com