tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post2464504057899228311..comments2024-02-02T01:18:39.737-05:00Comments on Brookey's Cafe Blog: Breaking Up Is Hard to DoBrookehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-25129200725751840782008-12-08T22:18:00.000-05:002008-12-08T22:18:00.000-05:00I feel like a bad sister I never thought to look f...I feel like a bad sister I never thought to look for your name at the end of a show..... wow I am shady.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-53250981028057337932008-12-08T22:12:00.000-05:002008-12-08T22:12:00.000-05:00Ok Brooke you know I got two babies how you gonna ...Ok Brooke you know I got two babies how you gonna have this long ass blog......anyway two things first before I add my two cents.....<BR/><BR/>1. Eid Mubarak<BR/>2. Rene you da bomb!!!!!!! How was the fried chicken???? I am all for the taking hostage of the cheese cake I mean really can we get some arros con condolles Amanda?!!!!<BR/><BR/>Ok for this topic I been married now 8 years!!!!! damn thats long (can I get new diamond...Brooke put it in his ear... Annaversary is coming Dec 31. <BR/>I forget how you break up with someone... maybe tell them your mom said you can't date??? Sike it hasn't been that long....Just be honest and tell the person its me not you I have some issues to work out and I don't want to leave you hanging while I get myself together. Oh! is that cliche?? Just leave me out of this one I am in a silly mood.....<BR/><BR/>I'll hollaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-4146927079143104702008-12-08T20:16:00.000-05:002008-12-08T20:16:00.000-05:00Ok Brooke-lyn, what's going on today? Is your pos...Ok Brooke-lyn, what's going on today? Is your post supposed to be The Easiest Way a Woman Can Get Her Behind Whooped? Or What To Do Ladies If You Never Want To See The Light of Day Again? Criticize his mother? Tell him his penis is small? THROW THE REMOTE OUT THE WINDOW??? He may let you live after the penis comment but he'll be damned if you're going to toss the clicker while Kobe's playing Lebron. That's the initializer for WWIII right there.<BR/>I haven't been dumped before. Not that I'm Lola Falana (I wish) but I simply haven't had enough relationships to acrue any playing time...nor players, lol. I had to dump a guy I was dating in high school. We were pretty good friends at the time. I'd broken it off with my high school sweetheart and of course "sweetheart" began behaving in a mean fashion towards me in retaliation. "Friend" was the shoulder I could lean on and we began to date. It was only for 2 months, the spread between my bday and his. Then I realized we were just really good friends. I enjoyed his company, we loved to pick each other's brains, had great conversations, could share anything. But our relationship lacked that feeling, that spark, the minutiae of what usually begins the process of me falling for a man. I knew I had to break it off. I did the "we need to talk" schpiel. He already knew the drill because he said "No, no, noooo. Don't do this." That broke my heart, but I didn't want to lead him on. I wanted to do it before we went on Thanksgiving break. What made it worse is that was just before his bday. He understood eventually because he really didn't feel <I>it</I> either. I was rebounding from a relationship and we just liked each other but not in <I>that</I> way. <BR/>Today, he's one of my best-est-est friends in the world (eventhough he missed my bday this year - that bum!). He went on and married his college sweetheart, a wonderful gal, and they share 3 beautiful chillins, he's a wonderful husband and man. I like to think I had a little bit to do with that. His wife is even a thick gal like myself **Pranny pats herself on the back** And most importantly, we still share and talk like we're in high school. I'm glad I broke it off while it was amicable before it went sour. His is a consociation that taught me about love and friendship and gave me insight on the male species (wow, what a quick 5 minutes that took, lol). His fellowship was a fractionary element that made my wonder years whole. He'd be sooo touched that I said these things about him. Let's just keep this between us, k?<BR/>And that's all I have to say about that. Spread love my people.<BR/>~PrincessMs. Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11065545152139713192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-7474129206854494672008-12-08T17:23:00.000-05:002008-12-08T17:23:00.000-05:00awww, you all are such great friends! I work hard ...awww, you all are such great friends! I work hard for that credit! But I appreciate you guys doing that cuz I know I barely watch A&E my damn self! LOL!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-15964106018146646022008-12-08T17:15:00.000-05:002008-12-08T17:15:00.000-05:00Leesa,Funny that you mentioned seeing Brooke's...Leesa,<BR/><BR/>Funny that you mentioned seeing Brooke's name on A&E. I told her today and I quote: “why come” I only watch A&E when a show is ending and they are rolling credits just to see your name?Keefehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14112878424828923041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-16682573586241517262008-12-08T16:33:00.000-05:002008-12-08T16:33:00.000-05:00Excellent blog today Ms. Brooke. I’m actually gett...Excellent blog today Ms. Brooke. I’m actually getting ready to read it again. You had a lot of useful break-up techniques! Oh one break up line someone used on me once was IT JUST WASN’T THERE ANYMORE? What in the heck was he talking about? BTW: Yesterday I was watching a show on A&E (it’s the show with the ticket agents). And I saw your name in credits. I actually started to laugh and thought about Annamaria and how I must find a hobby to occupy my time. Once again great blog!<BR/><BR/>-LeesaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-77270018314147255842008-12-08T15:48:00.000-05:002008-12-08T15:48:00.000-05:00Thanks for the congrats on the Eagles Rene, some o...Thanks for the congrats on the Eagles Rene, some of my other NY friends are straight haters! LOL!<BR/><BR/>awww, thank you about the cheesecake, it WAS kinda tasty wasn't it? Amanda is gonna cut you tho for taking her cheesecake, and for giving the last piece to Cole! LOL!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-32098243539992019792008-12-08T14:43:00.000-05:002008-12-08T14:43:00.000-05:00These reasons are mad funny!Annamaria-You are luck...These reasons are mad funny!<BR/><BR/>Annamaria-You are lucky that I was was finishing up a coule of blogs.<BR/>You got it today!<BR/><BR/>MOMO-Be happy you saved your money since no one won the Mega Millions.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Brooke-Y'all got the win this week.Congrats ...Nuff said<BR/><BR/>Dre-Congrats on your Ravens!<BR/><BR/>Even though we lost we still clinched the playoffs<BR/><BR/>I hope that everyone had a good weekend. <BR/><BR/>Breaking up via Text is a no-no...You should not even argue via text. If you can't do it in person then worst case scenario do it over the phone. <BR/><BR/>It's one thing to let someone know we need to talk but after that you meet or get on the phone. <BR/><BR/><BR/>Actually my I was with a friend of mine yesterday at a football game and she was telling me a story about her boss just getting dumped. Her boss dated a guy that lived 2 1/2 hours from her. the guys the boss was dating drove all the way up there and back just to talk to her in person to break up with her. It show's character for however bad the situation is. <BR/><BR/>Here's a remix: RANDOM FACTS MONDAY's:<BR/>-It is brick in NYC today!<BR/>-I am doing antoher Toys For Tots Drive in NYC Dec 19th. <BR/>-Brooke's Cheesecake is CRACK!Rene The Harlemitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17265156807652411432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-25248572055217728892008-12-08T13:53:00.000-05:002008-12-08T13:53:00.000-05:00"You're too good for me" is a bad one but I think ..."You're too good for me" is a bad one but I think "I'm too good for you" is worse! IMHO lol!<BR/><BR/>JayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-14003720588635104442008-12-08T13:52:00.000-05:002008-12-08T13:52:00.000-05:00LIZ!!! Keefe asked me today "Where is Liz's weekly...LIZ!!! Keefe asked me today "Where is Liz's weekly update!?" I will post it tomorrow, I promise! Sorry, I'm just giddy that the Eagles won!<BR/><BR/>Annamaria - LMAO LMAO LMAO! Yeah, I think tasing is cause for a break-up :-)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-49602470189286557902008-12-08T13:47:00.001-05:002008-12-08T13:47:00.001-05:00yoooo!!! youe reasons are MAD funny!! I think "y...yoooo!!! youe reasons are MAD funny!! <BR/><BR/>I think "you're too good for me" is the WORSE break-up line...it is so insincere!<BR/><BR/>the truth sometimes will cause the other party to break up with you so that they don't feel like they were "dumped" (you know who i am talking about brooke!) If you want to get biblical, just tell the other person that you have discovered that you are "unevenly yoked" and therefore can't continue....<BR/><BR/>one line that i used once was:<BR/><BR/>"while you and i are both moving forward, we are going at two different speeds in two different directions so its not about keeping up, it would be about switching course and neither of us want to veer from our goals in order to make the other person happy."<BR/><BR/>it worked.<BR/><BR/>BTW, i see you dissed my YouTube video shout out for the eagles but its all good *<I><B>sniff</B></I>*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-33318386616712415482008-12-08T13:47:00.000-05:002008-12-08T13:47:00.000-05:00Brooke I am VERY disappointed... You forgot the #1...Brooke I am VERY disappointed... You forgot the #1 way to break up for 2009! TASE THE MOFO!!! lmao<BR/>After surviving the shock he will NEVER want to be with you again! LOL ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-88901517844107890922008-12-08T13:44:00.000-05:002008-12-08T13:44:00.000-05:00Damn Jay, that sucks..but you're right, that's wha...Damn Jay, that sucks..but you're right, that's what that heffa gets! LOL!! I bet she's kicking herself after losing a good guy like you.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-47526639987629533412008-12-08T13:42:00.000-05:002008-12-08T13:42:00.000-05:00I'm a lil sensitive on this one. I once texted "t...I'm a lil sensitive on this one. I once texted "thinking of you" to a young lady I was seeing... I got the dreaded "we have to talk' response. <BR/><BR/>As it turns out she was cheating on me with her EX (or was she cheating on her EX with me?)<BR/><BR/>Anyway, she went back to him and 1 month later she was calling me back to "reconcile." Of course, we didn't...that's what she deserved! B*tch!!! LOL!<BR/><BR/>-JayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-56965364320303149032008-12-08T13:39:00.000-05:002008-12-08T13:39:00.000-05:00LMAO!!! damn! He's slow today cuz he's too busy ea...LMAO!!! damn! He's slow today cuz he's too busy eating cheesecake :)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-77778783072541780702008-12-08T13:37:00.000-05:002008-12-08T13:37:00.000-05:00I haven't even read the blog yet I just had to kno...I haven't even read the blog yet I just had to knock Rene off his high horse by being first! lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com