tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post2187002386076330084..comments2024-02-02T01:18:39.737-05:00Comments on Brookey's Cafe Blog: Love and RegretsBrookehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-2201798004505081172008-11-17T16:41:00.000-05:002008-11-17T16:41:00.000-05:00:-) But I think the game is in Baltimore, not Phil...:-) But I think the game is in Baltimore, not Philly...so I guess I'll have to try to catch the game on tv if they show it in NY.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-8155126271933156222008-11-17T16:25:00.000-05:002008-11-17T16:25:00.000-05:00Well... the ex has for the most part has been a le...Well... the ex has for the most part has been a learned process for me. But I keep it moving. No regrets...but just a new application of what to do or not to do on the next. Life's lessons!! <BR/><BR/>Like "The Fury"...I have remained pretty good friends with all my ex girlfriends ~ well all but 2.<BR/><BR/>Peace<BR/><BR/>Dre<BR/><BR/>Okay...no excuses ~ Ravens' got their Asses handed to them on a plate, hat's off to the Giants.<BR/>Eagles will have to pay dearly for that lost!!! LoL I'm still checking on those tickets Brooke * Wink WinkDre Lewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18411061260155363893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-53951462379758510342008-11-17T15:25:00.000-05:002008-11-17T15:25:00.000-05:00uh oh Rene, why you tryna start trouble? The Eagle...uh oh Rene, why you tryna start trouble? The Eagles have the Ravens this weekend, so wish us luck! <BR/><BR/>And yeah, if it's in the past, it's in the past. As Martin said, "if that sh*t is supposed to be over then let it be over!" LOL!!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-7619914769681943222008-11-17T14:53:00.000-05:002008-11-17T14:53:00.000-05:00Congrats Liz on the progress! Keep taking babystep...Congrats Liz on the progress! Keep taking babysteps so you don't feel overwhelmed. It's about the marathon no the sprint. Water is great. Your body reacts to you thoughts and you are in the midframe to lose weight it will start shedding it off. <BR/>Last year I lost 25 pounds in 5 weeks. It was because of right mentality, diet, and exercise. If you drink alcohol you may want to cut down or cut out your consumption of it. Keep it up! :)<BR/><BR/>I am not one really to go back to an ex...When it's done it's usually done for a legit reason. <BR/><BR/>I have gone back once...It was a learning experience...I am not an avid fan of living in the past. <BR/><BR/><BR/>But, the past weekend The Giants did get in the Ravens A$$! Dre Lew-Any comments? :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-61655566608002530972008-11-17T13:47:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:47:00.000-05:00You remember "Black Platinum"? Wow, now I'm getti...You remember "Black Platinum"? Wow, now I'm getting teary eyed. I forgot I shared that with you.Keefehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14112878424828923041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-40850670261347829312008-11-17T13:45:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:45:00.000-05:00okay, cool! I know it's hot, I still remember the ...okay, cool! <BR/><BR/>I know it's hot, I still remember the "Black Platinum" one ;-)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-60228919993945830832008-11-17T13:43:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:43:00.000-05:00I don't remember the entire poem. But I think I re...I don't remember the entire poem. But I think I remember the first few lines ......<BR/><BR/><BR/>Dayyuuunnnn hoe I like how you do,<BR/>walk down the skreets and ninjas checkin' for you.<BR/>You my Boomsheka!<BR/><BR/>I lub dem gold teefs in your mouf<BR/>Are you from da souf?<BR/>You my Boomsheka!<BR/><BR/><BR/>ok ok ok .....This obviously isn't the real poem. I'll dust off my journal and send you sumthin' one day.Keefehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14112878424828923041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-33443124763025914902008-11-17T13:40:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:40:00.000-05:00Y'all are killin me!I'm not jonesin! People please...Y'all are killin me!<BR/><BR/>I'm not jonesin! People please!! All I'm saying is that going back with an ex isn't always a bad thing and using my personal experience as an example, so stop it! LOL!!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-49266325992693338722008-11-17T13:36:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:36:00.000-05:00The ex question is always a tough one. I'm very f...The ex question is always a tough one. I'm very friendly and even can kick it with my exes. I've even been intimate with exes after the fact, but there's always that tinge of "you can look into the rear view mirror, but turn around and drive back" for me. <BR/><BR/>Brooke, you definitely sound wistful about "honeybunny". OOOOOhhh someone is jonesin'..and we knwo cuz when it comes down, it's a muthaf#ck@!The Furyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16145614924246887651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-81673555284908491732008-11-17T13:35:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:35:00.000-05:00Nicole, you're killing me! Yes, I deserve to be bl...Nicole, you're killing me! <BR/><BR/>Yes, I deserve to be blessed. I'm already blessed :-)<BR/><BR/>We'll have to talk offline about this high school guy you're talking about ;-) <BR/><BR/>Keefe, I'd love to read that poem! The one I wrote is simple and to the point. <BR/><BR/>guess thats the<BR/>funny thing about<BR/>the human spirit<BR/>that's so spellbinding,<BR/>just when u thought<BR/>u were the furthest thing<BR/>from my mind<BR/>u were the closest thing<BR/>to my heart........Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-78635521738455435502008-11-17T13:27:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:27:00.000-05:00yeah .... "Boomsheka" was a poem I wrote for her.yeah .... "Boomsheka" was a poem I wrote for her.Keefehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14112878424828923041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-85138491616268643282008-11-17T13:26:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:26:00.000-05:00well if any woman would be blessed to have him the...well if any woman would be blessed to have him then my only comment would be don't you deserve to be blessed... hmm think about it. Of course your not stalking him you have always been known for your honesty but part of me just wants to know could there be something there or not, otherwise I have a another guy in mind. Although he was never a boyfriend so he wouldn't be an ex but he did like you in high school so maybe he still does??!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-57461645717601767812008-11-17T13:18:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:18:00.000-05:00Go Liz!!I was listening to it on my way in to work...Go Liz!!<BR/><BR/>I was listening to it on my way in to work too... and HELL YEAH I regret going back with my ex. I wouldn't advise anyone to do that! Once it's over, it's over! He was just too crazy! He made me not wanting to be in a relationship ever again (sike), but that's how bad it got!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-51356508953857472432008-11-17T13:17:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:17:00.000-05:00Damn Keefe! I'm sorry to hear that! "Boomsheka?" L...Damn Keefe! I'm sorry to hear that! "Boomsheka?" LOL!!! <BR/><BR/>Well, since you're married now, I take it you've learned the lessons from that relationship and applied it somehow. I don't want to make assumptions about people's relationships, but I think sometimes it takes "phucking it up" to realize what to do and what NOT to do if we're blessed enough to get the chance at real love again.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-64132502034990947932008-11-17T13:14:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:14:00.000-05:00Liz,Congrats on the weight loss. Stay focused and...Liz,<BR/><BR/>Congrats on the weight loss. Stay focused and keep your eyes on the prize! BTW, you damaged my hearing with that squeal. But, I'm still happy for you.<BR/><BR/>Brooke,<BR/><BR/>I speak to most of my ex's. However, there is one who wouldn't speak to me if her life depended on it. She was my "Boomsheka", my rock, my soul, my everything. She truly loved me when I didn't have a pot to piss in. Unfortunately, I phucked it up! I wanted to be a playa-playa from the Himalayas. Eventually, she "fired" me and refuses to have any form of communication with me.Keefehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14112878424828923041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-60585927104909650052008-11-17T13:11:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:11:00.000-05:00LMAO!! Leave it to my sister... ;-)I didn't really...LMAO!! Leave it to my sister... ;-)<BR/><BR/>I didn't really look at it as me putting myself out there. I looked at it more from the angle of learning to appreciate an ex for the lessons and love they've given. The comments on the radio all sounded so bitter and hurtful, and I wanted to show that getting back with an ex can be a good learning experience, even if it doesn't last forever. Just like Liz said, she learned a lot about herself AFTER she got back with an ex, even if what she learned was that she didn't need him. Sometimes it takes getting back to get the lesson.<BR/><BR/>As for "Honeybunny," I think he knows everything that I put in my blog today. I've told him several times how I feel about him. Just because I tell him these things doesn't mean I'm trying to stalk him to get back together with him :-) I tell him these things because I think it's important to let those you care about know how they've impacted your life - especially if it's in a good way. I am SO thankful to have been in that relationship because some people never get a chance to be in really good one. Once you've been treated well, it's hard to go backwards - and I don't feel that any of us should. He has had relationships after me, so maybe he would veiw going back to me as "backwards." Who knows. My only concern is that he finds the love he deserves, even if it's not with me. I have nothing bad to say about him. Any woman who gets him will be blessed.Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-87725012849526163022008-11-17T13:02:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:02:00.000-05:00Ok you have really put yourself out there!!!! It s...Ok you have really put yourself out there!!!! It sounds to me that you kind of miss this ex???? WE have had this conversation before and I recall encouraging you to see if there was still some love there. We will talk later as to what made you put yourself out there. (I applaud you for that) I wonder if this first anonymous is him???? I hope that "HoneyBunny" reads your blog because I like him and wouldn't mind him as a brother in law!!!!! <BR/>NicoleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-63184601807081199502008-11-17T13:00:00.000-05:002008-11-17T13:00:00.000-05:00Why does YouTube always freeze the video at the WO...Why does YouTube always freeze the video at the WORST spot!! lol<BR/><BR/>That being said lets move on…<BR/><BR/>I went back to 2 exes; the first was to someone that I had broken up based on a lie. I thought that by getting back with him we could move forward. The problem is that we would have eventually broken up anyway because there were a lot of other problems that plagued our relationship and I fell right back in with my eyes open. To be quite honest, I wasn’t thinking with my brain the second time! I don’t regret this because now my question was answered. There was no more “what if the lie had never happened – would we be together”. <BR/><BR/>The second person was someone I had dated for over a year. He broke up with me and even though I didn’t realize it at the time, it was the best thing that he could have ever done for me. I guess I didn’t understand until we got back together and I realized how much I had grown without him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-5680905247096756422008-11-17T12:40:00.000-05:002008-11-17T12:40:00.000-05:00Not sure he'd want me to name names, but you know ...Not sure he'd want me to name names, but you know who I'm talking about Karen :-) <BR/><BR/>I'm about to check out your blog in a second!Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-27458607410247576702008-11-17T12:38:00.000-05:002008-11-17T12:38:00.000-05:00ummmm, is that ex from NY perhaps!:-) If so, I fe...ummmm, is that ex from NY perhaps!:-) If so, I feel he was great for you too:-)!!!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-35515502919835759492008-11-17T12:31:00.000-05:002008-11-17T12:31:00.000-05:00He was...he still is :-)He was...he still is :-)Brookehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584160320846679744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4984100112542285026.post-72378314884066540842008-11-17T12:30:00.000-05:002008-11-17T12:30:00.000-05:00Damn, that ex-sounds like da bomb..Damn, that ex-sounds like da bomb..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com